girls that want babys and ones that dont

We just had our first baby about three weeks ago, and the whole process has been amazing. We definitely plan on having more children, though we'd like to adopt, too.

 

for some reason i really dont think ill want to have kids, but adopt instead. my heart really goes out to those kids that deserve so much more than adoption homes, and if i can save just one child, that will mean the world to me. im sure ill atleased have one, just to experience the whole mother-thing, but i am really down with adopting a child.

 

Never been interested in it.

 

Ive never wanted to have any of my own.
I have, though, always thought it would be good to foster or adopt.... seems like there are plenty that needs homes (most people adopt the babies and leave the ones that are a bit older, anyways! So I would be filling a need by caring for the unwanted... besides, little babies make me nervous anyways) ...
Well, my heart isnt that of a mother... but I dont beat myself down for that. I have received alot of negativity through my life for saying that (I grew up in the "church" world) but I dont care .... I know where my heart is, and thats all that matters.
I could see myself being a friend, a protector, a mentor... to kids that wouldnt be my own.... and I know that those things can be important, too.... if it made a difference in the life of a child who really needed it. Anyone can pop out kids, but I think it takes a truly caring and special kind of person to reach out to those unwanted, those troubled, those in need of a home and love. And well.... thats how I feel.

 

Teehee.. I thought I'd make a quick "yay for me" post here....:-D
I have gotten to the point now and the past few months that I would do anything for a child of my own....so what have I done about it? Welll... :-D I work at a daycare now! Since February! I THOUGHT dealing with 30 kids age 2-5 and 4 babies 5 days a week would kind of lessen my thoughts of bearing children right now... heh, BOY WAS I WRONG! I want one even MORE now.... anyway...back to the point.. yeah, oh my gee I love my job!

 

I'm firmly in the "no kids please" category. I can't stand the little buggers.

 

I know Im only 15 but I do want kids. I love children... sometimes there nicer than most teens or adults I know. And their not shy! But Im not planning on having anytime soon... In the futrue yes! 2 or 3. And I do want to adpot one ...at least one.

 

I want a lil' me one of these days, but I have to conquer the world and find my place in this world that the Gods have established for me. I would love to have a baby girl, but that time will come. I just need to find myself first.

 

I wasnt always into the whole baby thing. My best friend got pregnant at a young age(16)and though she is the best mother to this day. I always was like woah thats not for me. I went on birth control after I seen her get pregnant and even though at times it was hard she made it look easy I still said NOPE not me. I recently went off of birth control(the shot) bc it made me gain a lot of weight and now that I have grown up a bit I am ALWAYS around babies I think that if I got pregnant that I would be the best mom I could ever be. I look forward when the time comes. Come hell or high weather I am sure even though its hard at times it will happen on its own. I want to be able to leave a legacy behind even after I am gone. I love all kids and its funny bc all of them love me so much. People say I am a natural at it even though its only been a few yrs that I actually started babysitting and helping all of my friends out that are mothers.
Some people say O I am gonna wait till I am financially or emotionally ready......um so tell me when exactly that is suppose to be when god knows that when u have a kid....everything changes. The way you think about things, the things you do in your normal day to day routines......haha I like to laugh bc even the richest people can be the worst parents, always working and tryin to pay the bills and all that they never find enough time to "play" with their children.

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I never felt mature enough to have kids, but a couple of years ago my husband talked me round. I decided I had to start a family asap (since I was in my 30s) or else I would probably regret it.

Being pregnant and having and raising my two boys has been the most amazing experience of my life. I can't wait to become pregnant again (though hubby is mostly against the idea)

And I'm not a fan of kids per se - just my ones.

 

I want to have a baby eventually, but it wouldn't be exactly ideal at this moment in time, seeing as my sig other and I are trying to find employment and footing so that we can move out on our own instead of depending on our parents. Not to say that if I got pregnant tomorrow I wouldn't be ecstatic, I love the idea of having a child. I think that maybe if more good people had kids, the future would be brighter. I just hope my children turn out as good as me and my brother...hehe. I've promised myself one thing my whole life, my kids will not be raised with a hint of hatred in their hearts towards anything or anyone. It's the kids that are taught to hate that make the world such a bad place when they grow older.

 

i never want kids. i absolutely hate them. always have. whenever i hear a baby's/child's scream/giggle/etc it puts images of me brutally murdering them in my head. hah.

 

erm....while "don't have kids then" is a good thing to say...

I also think you should seek professional help...KILLING KIDS???

 

Miss Eddy probably means it as a figure of speech. I'd never actually hurt a child, but I'm guilty of saying, "If that squalling brat doesn't shut up, I'm gonna KILL 'im!"

It's not meant literal. I would like to slap one occasionally though. Kids are the most annoying things on the planet, I swear!

 

I love kids. i can't wait until I have a classroom full of them!

 

ahahahhahaha, i have never harmed, much less killed a kid and i dont plan on doing so, but...yeah...whatever you say.

 

I don't really want to have a baby -- of my own. I have never been a girl who dreamt of a big family, or even of a husband ...

If I have a child, I think I would like to be a single mother (yes, I know that is INSANELY hard, as I watched what my own mother went through).

I would never have more than one child of my own, and would prefer adoption over having one at all. (If I adopt, though, I would take in as many as three!)

That being said ... I have considered sterilization, but cannot quite bring myself to do it. So I guess perhaps I am ambivalent ... ?

 

I intesntly dislike most children, so no.

 

yeah, i most definately want to be sterilized. Ive thought about it for years...

 

i cant waitto have kids, i've bugged my partner for a little over 18months to have kids but at the time he wasnt ready. if i got pregnant now i wouldnt have an abortion but my partner would be much happier than me. i've started enjoying just being me & doing what i want at the mo tho 6 monthsago i wouldnt have said that. i know that the broodyness is because of my age, my body is changing (physically as well as mentally), my hormones are changing into that of a woman & its at this time that the body is at its very best to have children & crying out to concieve.
i am far too selfish at the moment, i love clothes & thrive on looking good. also my friend has 4 kids, i know she gets jellous of me being able to go out round town any time i want & getting pissed. i'm just going to enjoy my time. i know kids change your life & that your not supose to stop doing what you enjoy but i really like to be able to just walk out the door & decide that i'm going to pub & gona get hammered.

but i do know i'm gona have kids, hopefully a few, i'd rather have boys than girls but i'm not that bothered aslong as its healthy. i know i want a largish family & that my partner will make a fantastic dad, i dont want to leave it too long either, maybe 2-3 years.