my gf isnt expeirianced at felatio(im her first) so idk if its her or me but i cant come from oral. i come close but then i just dont feel it and i cant force it and idk i just dont really feel it much, like its warm but not real wet or great feeling like sometimes it is but like we went at it for 20 minutes and nothing and i felt bad for not comeing and making her feel good and all... Is it at all normal for a guy not to come or have difficulty coming from oral? its not problem of busted equipment i know cuz i can do it otherwise just not... I can make her come pretty quick and hard from toungue and finger action but anyway. If you think its her fault can you give me some tips to help her out? or if its mine wtf am i doing wrong
well....if she's just sucking on it, then it probably won't work...she hasta move it in and out of her mouth, like you're fucking it, and use her tongue a lot, mainly working it around the head. using one of her hands to play with your ball, or jack you off while sucking also helps.
some guys just don't cum easily or at all from oral but if she's new at it, no harm in practice... try and think of what she does that feels really good, and let her know, be really positive and encouraging so that she doesn't feel like the attempt is futile
Dont feel bad. And make sure your girlfriend knows its not a big deal, too. Maybe its not her or you or anything... it could just be that that act isnt as pleasurable for you as other things. Have fun doing what yall like the most. Everyone is different. If it makes ya feel any better, I've had boyfriends go down on me and it didnt do a damn thing for me, either...... and it wasnt because they werent experienced. I just didnt get much pleasure from it, and found I prefer everything but oral, lol. I dont mind giving it though, lol, and yah they liked it ..... but anyways, like I said .... its definately an individual thing.
thanks flee2fly i like giving her oral pleasure and she definatly gets a lot from it but idk it might be me or something... dunno
I used to have trouble cumming from blow jobs, I think it was mainly due to being self conscious. It still takes more than hands or sex, but damn it feels good!
I've only been able to cum from receiving from just a few girls. My most recent g/f could make me cum in a matter of minutes depending on how aggressive she was. She kept the eye contact,stroked hard while sucking,lots of drool: all those factors will get me off in almost no time. But the longer we were together she would take her time,suck slower & just take longer in general & I started having a hard time cumming I would help her out by stroking while she licked my balls or lower which is still fine for me. I've also learned this about myself mostly because I heard Dr. Drew(from Love Lines) bring it up that if you're emotionally attached to someone it could take longer to have them cum especially if they plan on swallowing whereas,if it's just come random person you can cum almost no problem. I know that probably doesn't go for everybody but it most certainly relates to me. Either way....bj's=good.
they feel good yes, and that makes sense i guess about the emotional attachment because if i watch her i feel sorry and it looks unpleasant but she sais she loves to
I've never cum from oral and doubt I ever will and I've had some pretty talented partners. I need steady consistent motion and friction that I've only experienced through sex to get there. Everyone's different, I wouldn't sweat it
i ve never came and i had plenty of blowjobs,so your not alone dude (most likely its your girl if its her first)
I'm 31, been married divorced and am married again, and been sexually active since I was 15, my wife (current one) is the only woman who has ever gotten me off with her mouth, and she's only managed it twice, we've been together for 6 years.
hmmm...i would try lie flavored lube or something..maybe she would liek the taste better and it would be more pleasurbale and easier for her to suck you off..thats the advice someone gave me and it worked....yay!
I wont typically cum from oral unless my girl is nasty about it. I like the slurping sounds, jerking, deep throat, and pushing her head down. I enjoy it smooth now and then, but when she gives me head nice and slow, that just makes me want to fuck the shit out of her...not cum.
