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I'm 17, and I'am a virgin. I've never had a relationship, I meet a girl at a party, get off with her and end up with my hand down her pants etc. But they never want to date/go out with me. All the girls I've got with do this to me. Am I doing something wrong or something. HELP please

 

Maybe you're coming on a little too strong.. There's certain things I see in people while chatting that instantly allows me to know whether I would want to pursue a relationship with them or not.. Just relax and try talking to these girls instead of sticking your hand down their pants.. That is all fine and dandy but it's possible these girls could be looking for something more..

 

Rule of thumb: If they'll fool around with you after just meeting you, they probably don't want anything more. They just like fooling around.

 

get more liquor in'em..... Heeee hawww.....




J/K....


Mike...

 

I'm seventeen and a virgin...

 

one of my mom's friends has that problem too... well, he just got a gf, but pretty much every woman who's met him has found him easy to use a few times and then say goodbye to, or just turn him into a fuckbuddy. He's quite sexual but not too serious otherwise, not really looking to settle down, takes direction easily (ie you can tell him to get out right after sex, and tell him your'e just friends who occasionally fuck and he won't push the issue).... something about the vibes he sends out, make it seem like he's just looking for casual play

 

well...
if you are sticking your hand down their pants = sex
if you are talking to them like a normal person that seems interested in them = relationship
if you are talking to them and being super nice and understanding = friends

just be a little less aggressive towards the whole sex part, and even if you get to making out and that stuff, it would be kind of hard to gauge if she is making out with you because she likes you or because she just wants to make out with any guy. don't worry, it will happen. i lost my virginity when i was 20 here at college, and i did it with this one girl that now hates my guts, so... choose wisely.

 

1 character.

 

Don't even start the "How old is the virgin?" thread. I'll beat the lot of you in that one!

 

Virginity in my opinion doesnt matter. U people are always so obsessed about being or not neing a virgin... there are a lot of more things in life that just sex or penetration, sometimes I prefer just kissing than to put my uknowwhat inside a girl. Please relax and u will have the chance, do it with someone that means something to u and that u are sure u want it to make it with. DOnt go so fast and enjoy tthe starting of a relation that is the best part

 

Well there is no way to predict how to get in a good relationship. I am 20 and still a virgin and I wouldn't call the relationships I have been in, relationships. I am starting to think me being who I am as a person along with how I was placed in this light brown skin body doesn't intermix very well. Maybe it is just this area, or it is just the way things are and I must function with it.

 

Anyone can go out anytime and lose their virginity if they desperately wanted to. I think most of us on here are virgins because we choose to be. It all comes down to willpower which some of us apparently have, and I guess finding a like minded mate.

 

What is ugly anyways? If adolescents were in some sort of screened community that teaches you the exact opposite of whats in these beauty magazines, television, or whatever it is that is feeding people propagandist information. Then I bet they would vote for some women that weighs over 300 pounds for Miss wherever.

 

Losing virginity is no problem. Especially if you don't care with you you will lose with.
About your problem... I have the opposite problem. All guys that are remotely attractive to me consider me just a friend. Those i couldn't even imagine as my boyfriend literary glue to me. wanna change?
P.S.(in my situation there is no sex included) LOL

 

im 17 and im still a virgin too shitty haha. its gonna be a good day soon though haha always look on the bright

 

this is exactly what I was going to say.


yes, insanejester, some girls just want to use boys/men for their dicks. Some don't want anything more than that from you. Most won't admit that, even if it's true, because of the old double standard that a loose woman is a slut while a loose man is socially acceptable, but that doesn't change anything. Some people just want the sex without any ties, doesn't matter if they are man or woman. The sort of girl who will let someone she doesn't even know stick his hand in her pants is either easy and was disappointed she didn't get laid, or she was drunk and ashamed to face him after she sobered up.

 

it will be the first one that you want more than just sex from her. She'll use you and spit you out like a piece of old gum, leaving you to rot on the floor just like you have done to those other women. wait and see.

 

vicious...

 

And i hope you will join us that day and tell us all about it.
Guys like you don't deserve any better.
Maybe even a bit worse.

 

I've learnt something: when you want to make a fool out of someone don't do anything, just let him/her be. He/she will eventualy do/say something so stupid you could never make her do.

I do resepect the honesty, though