Recognizing your Soulmate?

Have any of you experienced this? Old Crone welcome to reply.
ALL of you are!

I can't deny the feeling that myself and my current wife HAVE been together at least twice now. As of this lifetime. The last time I have a feeling we were in Chicago during the Fire the cow started. I also feel that we will be together once more at least. Perhaps because I love her very much in this life, and don't want to be without her. Or am I seeing the future?
Could this be my Soulmate???

 

hey man, that's really cool. I could see her being your soulmate, but only you can really answer that question. I'm a junior right now, but i seriously think i've found mine. I've nvr felt this way about anyone. We just absolutley complete each other. Whenever i'm not with her i feel like a different person.

 

possibly, I always wanted my mom and dad to be back together, I could always see the lonliness in my mom's eyes..........But my dad is remarried... Not giving up hope, maybe one day

 

I totally believe in soulmates. From the moment we've met my boyfriend and i have felt an intense connection and understanding. Its a true 'i feel like ive known him forever' situation. His mother as well as some of her friends who have pretty strong gifts have all said that our souls have been together in past lives. He and I even had a freaky experience at a group meditation where at the end of our journey we both ended up finding each other, but not the present physical manifestation of the other, if that makes sense.

We have each felt from only a few weeks in the relationship that we will spend the rest of this life with each other. We both believe that these people are right and we hve been together in past lives.

You're probably completely correct. Its such an intense feeling to actually find ones soulmate

 

Yeah - totally - but not necessarily just partners - I feel any one person could enter your life at any moment and pass something to you that you needed at that moment - if not for a lifetime.Sometimes people say things that stay with you for years - you don't necessarily realise at the time - but later on - you find yourself in a situation and remember what somebody said - and how they looked and where you were at the time - and what it means now.I've been in and out of long relationships - and at some point - it can be anywhere - on a mountain - in a supermarket - out of all the crap in my head - I have a flashback to something somebodysaid - a woman - sometimes a passerby that suddenly comes to mind - and I know that what they said was made out of 100% pure gold.I know for a fact that the reason I spent all those beautiful days and painful days or a fleeting moment with certain people were all important - and there were times where I've travelled with a girl to some remote spot on the horizon where the sun was setting and we exchanged something was very very important - I don't know the reasons why - but - thats the only thing that makes me realise that everyday - the decisions you take and little things you try to achieve mean something - if not for your own benefit then for somebody elses.I don't understand the world - but I've even had this feeling with certain places I've ended up - like I ended up
building a path out of wooden planks on a remote island at sea for people to walk on.6 years later when I was living somwhere completely different I found out that the ancestors on my fathers side of the family had actually raped and burned the villagers and their houses on that unknown island,and moved the population to Novia Scotia - so it seemed like I had done something - very little - towards righting a wrong.I feel it also works vice versa - we also have things to relate at certain moments to help other people/entities.But - I'm no expert - just go on instinct

 

This subject is very close to my heart.

Eighteen months ago, I connected with a guy on a spiritual forum. Out of all the user names there, his hit me right between the eyes......

He like me, has studied past lives and we both recall where we were and have brought this memory into our present life...

He lives 3000 miles away from me....is 21 years younger, but the bond we have is so strong, at times its overwhelming....

I have never felt so understood by anyone, and he feels the same....

We have a very strong psychic link....feel each others moods, sense when things arent good etc...

We were lovers in Ireland long ago.....i died....he was there with me....

Both of us have been terrified of losing each other ever since we connected again in this life....

Very painful, yet very enlightening...

 

I don't exactly like to be the wet rag, but I think this thread needs a bit of balance. I don't in any way disparage what you folks have found in your relationships. Wonderful for you.

I just want to say that this doesn't happen to everyone. It has never happened to me, though I thought it did for the fleeting space of time in which I was "in love," which, by the way, is not a spiritual state, as many like to believe, but is actually a chemical state designed by natural selection to last approximately long enough for a member of a new generation to be conceived. After that, it's back to reality.

Oh, I've been in love lots of times. It's fun to be in love--one of my favority hobbies. It just hasn't led to any "soulmate experiences" for me, after two marriages and lots of ummm relationships. I wish it would.

I just thought would be good to write this down for others who, like me, read these stories and wonder if they're the only ones who are not being blessed.

 

Not always a blessing friend...some might say a curse!!!

Wrong timing....one already married....living in different countries.....huge age gap etc etc.....

Maybe you are better off not knowing?

 

OOOoooohhhh, okay sexbanshee, now your relationship is starting to sound more like some of mine!

Based on my own experience, I was starting to think "soul mate" meant somebody who was going to teach me another special spiritual lesson that required going through some special kind of hell. Maybe that's not far from the truth...

 

where's my soulmate at?...

 

Yes I agree soulmate can equal hell!!!!!

Haha...tis only since i gave birth to my son that I have copped onto the fact that soul mate doesnt equal love and bliss....

Its almost as though, after I gave birth, I gave birth to myself....

And started to see things as they really are and not as I want them to be......

The guy I currently have a soul connection with is the most challenging of people I ever came to know...

He pushes all my buttons in both a good way and not so good way.....

It is at times, tough love...

 

Yet it feels so good to find someone with whom we can merge our ego boundaries and expand beyond ourselves...doesn't it?

And after you gave birth, the world suddenly became ominous and frightening in ways you never conceived before, didn't it? I have babies, too, sexbanshee. I sometimes say to my oldest, who is 13: What have you done with my Baby Jeremy? He of course thinks his old man is out of his stinkin' mind. Damn kid is taller than me already. And he is already one of his mother's most capable advisors...in lieu of her husband's flippant dismissal, LOL. God help us...

The important thing is that your soul mate is with you, and this is a blessing. Squeeze the maximum enjoyment from that connection, and I wish you immeasurable joy.

 

Oh wow....words of wisdom for sure....and they brought tears to my eyes, to hear about your "baby"

thankyou....

My soulmate is only with me in spirit so to speak...I live in Ireland, he in the States...we never met but spoke and "felt" each other hundreds of time and for hundreds of years...

Funny your reply should come to me today....after talking with him yesterday and feeling so "dismayed" at not being able to have him....I awoke thinking i might have to let him go and cut the ties....

Dont quite know what to do......he moves me like no other and gets me like no other man ever did...

Oh dear......

Thanks very much for your kind words.....immeasurable joy.....he brings that to me....but also the distance between us bring immeasurable misery...

God help us......?

 

Long-distance relationships seem to be a major theme in my life. The distance seems to get larger with each new one. I'll probably be having telepathic conversations with a Martian woman next. LOL Not sure what God is trying to tell me--commune in spirit instead of in body? Who knows...

And one of the lessons I've been learning lately is when and how to let go...I've been letting go a lot. You need to decide what you truly want, and what you don't want to continue living with, and when you're sure it's time for a change, you need to do what is sometimes the hardest thing, which is to act on your decision.

God help us--absolutely! Life is hard, and so am I. LMAO

 

I am not married to my soulmate, yet i know who he is. we never did have a real lover type relationship, but i know that he is my soulmate...and i think he knows.

 

zengizmo

You have NO ideal how timely your words of wisdom are......

I am at such a crossroads at the moment. I am being given the go ahead and yet I still am a little reticent...

God help us...
Glad you are hard
~LOL~

 

Actually I do have a smidgen of an idea. LOL Don't worry, sexbanshee, and don't force the issue...follow your feelings. If it's not meant to be, it will crash and burn on its own; on the other hand if you have reached the point in your experience where you know which way the wind is blowing, then you don't need to wait for the crash--you can give it up on your own.

Or maybe it's simply meant to go on and on and on... LOL

Hardly me,
zengizmo

 

Oh thanks zen

I am clueless at the moment.....

as for following my feelings.....that could get me into BIG BIG trouble....

lol

and yes on and on sounds quite likely....

*sigh*

 

soul mates.... jeez...

 

Oh and zen

I meant to say.....thanks very much..... for getting me!!!!!