so about 5 years ago (7th grade) i moved to a different state and became BEST friends with this girl who we shall call 'katie' (lol) and had been best friends ever since. until about a couple months ago- she got this boyfriend and totally lost sense of everything she is. i WANT to be her friend but shes definitly not who she used to be. no my 'ignoring' her (i tried ignoring her cause shes SO annoying) has turned into a sort of bitter thing... and i hate it. hwo to deal- i dont want to be mean to her but for heavens sake, im seeing her ugly as ever and its hard not to do the stupid girl glares.
As teenagers and through out life, I think we all go through differnt stages/emotions/experances...trying to find ourselfs. Trying to figure out what we stand for. Maybe tell her in the niciest way possible that shes changed. But I don't know her and I don;t know how she'll take it. I got stupid like that and my best friend stuck by me and honestly I can't thank her enough. I like who I am now although Im not perfect. Gook Luck. Peace!
If you truly care about her then stick with her. We all go through changes in our lives, there will probably be a time when you change a little... that doesn't mean that all of your friends should dump you... sometimes you have to stick out the hard stuff to get to the good.
