I've had so many friend growin up, Most of em O.D., Some are still alive...What I don't get is why they don't try to keep in touch with me.. If I go into their neighborhood an see em on the street they act all friendly to me, and say,"Hey man we have to get together", So IT never happens... I've done no wrong to any of em, I just don't get it! Why do some people have this attitude? They just don't keep in touch.I've tracked down a friend through the internet,He now lives out west, I wrote him a nice letter and he acknowledged it and said take care,,, I never heard from him again.... Do I have the Fuckin PLAGUE????? I just don't get it....I'm a good guy, I do anything to help friends, So I'm lost now....ANY ADVICE? The Loner.....
I don't think it's probably intentional, it's just that when so much time passes by, sometimes people just naturally drift apart, they have their own lives, and even though they still care about you, they have moved on. If that makes any sense.
Thanks Hippychickmommy, I sort of realize that..I guess its sort of hard to except , I just miss my ol' friends , They were a part of my life and I just miss em...I wish you Peace and Happiness...Thanks for the reply
You're welcome. I understand how you feel...I've had that happen with some of my old friends too. I think probably many other people have as well. {{{Hugs}}}
Thanks again, I'm feeling really down and sad tonite just thinking about all this and where my life is now ..and dealing with Funerals every day does'nt help because I get involved and fell real sorry for these people who have lost their loved ones, So thanks for your kind heart..Wish I had friends like you..Peace
Awww, thankyou and {{{hugs}}} again. I'm really sorry that you're feeling down. It sounds to me like you yourself have a very kind heart, and tend to be one of those people who take the weight of the world on your shoulders, feel other's pain as if it were your own. I know, that's how I tend to be.
yea, it happens to everyone. its nothing intentional, its just the flow of life. my best friend growing up moved 20 minutes away to a different city. i always went out to see him. but as we got older, and i had more things to do, it just became harder to get out there every weekend like i did before. so we drifted apart. now, i haven't seen him in 4 years. its sad, cuz he IM'd me in march to get together, but it just didn't work out. i'm at school most of the time in vermont, while he's working in mass. its just hard. though, it would be great to meet up again, i just dont' see us becoming as close as we used to anymore - though i did wish it were so.
WOW You don't really know me but you do, I guess you Just described me perfectly, Thanks for talkin' to me, I'm alot older than you but I still feel like a child at heart,,, I LOVe this site thanks to kind loving beings as yourself.....I'll put you and family in my prayers..( HUGS TO YOU, It means so much to me that you replied) I wish you PEACE on EARTH....
THANKS Again.... I'm listenin' to jeff. starship now..It soothes me...Thanks I hope to talk to you again..LUV & PEACE to U & family..(BIG HUG)
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These kinds of people are not your friends. I run into people like this and I am guilty of saying such things myself but never following through. I dont look at these people as my friends. Friends, real friends are hard to come by. Acquaintances are a dime a dozen. Sorry if it sounds sad but it's true.
