Ok, i have a problem. like i have alot of dirty thoughts in my mind but i just cant let GO! my boyfriend was talking dirtty to me, and i really like it, but i dont even know what to say back. he wants me to tell him what do to me, and i want to also, but im too embarassed. i mean, im talking dirty in my head, but im too embarassed 2 say it out loud. its like, that sort of stuff turns me on, but i guess im emabrassed 2 say and do what i REALLY want in bed. im afraid that like, he'll think im weird or something. even though he'd probably like it - you knwo, if i really let go and show him my 'dirty,nasty side'. its like, when i was single, i was more in "tune" with my dirty side. but since ive had a boyfriend, its calmed down. i dont know, i really want to get in touch with my sexy uninhibited nasty bitch side(hehe) but am a bit embarassed. dont know what to do, start, i dont know what to do to just let GO. bah - any suggestions?
Just let it out. I was in the same boat not all that long ago. I decided to just be embarassed. The embarassment lasted about 3 seconds.
The embarrassment will die after the pleasure begins. There will always be moments of embarrassment, but if you can't vocalize what you want in bed, you're just not gonna get it. Sorry, darling, but it's as simple as that. If that's not incentive enough, think about the fact that it'll turn on your partner, too. Sometimes, you just have to bite the bullet and deal. It will get easier with time.
