Sex and Clothing- A Question

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Bella_Donna, Apr 20, 2006.

  1. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    Hello all.

    I was just wondering something and I thought perhaps the fine folks 'round these parts could answer my question. What do you wear to have sex? Do you strip, then head to bed? Do you just leave on whatever you were wearing prior to the action? Or do you have special outfits or clothes that you wear for sex (or foreplay)?

    Personally, I like to wear something special. I have an extensive collection of lingerie and stockings, and I hardly go to bed without slipping into something a little provocative. Corsets, teddies, stilletos, crotchless fishnet body-stockings, push-up bras, super-tall boots, garter belts- wearing that stuff makes me feel sexy and puts me in the mood as quickly as you can slip on a pair of silk thigh-highs. That being said, it all ends up in a rumpled pile on the floor pretty fast, anyways, but it's fun while it lasts.:p

    My high school gym teacher once told us that wearing a plain, white t-shirt with skin-tight bicycle shorts drives her man crazy, so she wears that for him. My best friend is a firm believer in the nudity choice, and opts for losing her clothes as fast as possible. As far as men go, most of the guys I've been with strip almost immeadiately. An ex of mine used to always leave his t-shirt on, though, no pants or even socks, but the t-shirt stayed on...:confused:

    So, what do you wear? Or not wear, for that matter.
     
  2. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    I always seem to end up totally nude

    I tried lingerie a couple times, but no one I've dated seemsm terribly interested in the stuff, or to even notice it whenever I've tried it, so meh, there doesn't seem to be much point to it (I mean, I feel a bit sexier in it, but if the guy's gonan totally ignore that there's no sense to sticking with it)
     
  3. earthmomma

    earthmomma Senior Member

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    When i first got married i used to dress up for my husband all the time.. corsets.. garters.. boots.. and the like.. now we just strip as quickly as possible... but i kinda miss that slow teasing way you undress in front of some one for the first time... its really sensual..
     
  4. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    Well, I'm almost certain to get some action if I wear a g-string and a mini-skirt. Works nearly every time. But as far as anything else goes, I haven't really had an opportunity to wear sexy lingerie or anything. I don't think it would make much of a difference, it wouldn't be on long, haha.
     
  5. woodcat

    woodcat Senior Member

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    Im with your best friend, has to be nude, if possible (difficult in some circumstances). But you cant beat being naked when doing it!!
     
  6. Justwow

    Justwow Banned

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    A sex partner is far sexier naked, imo.
     
  7. SonicYouthFan

    SonicYouthFan Member

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    i get pretty turned with a girl in lingerie like if she slowly took of her clothesthen did some stuff with me with her wearinglingerie would get me pretty hard like us dry humping in our underwear then i ripe off her underwera with my teeth and not take it off all the way and fuck her like that. it would be some good foreplay
     
  8. now?

    now? Member

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  9. kissya

    kissya Head Mistress

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    I like to wear pretty things to play in....but it always ends up on the floor anyway.
     
  10. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    I have things I wear depending on the mood/situation/person.. If a man wants me to wear something specific then I'll do so.. I end up naked most of the time but I had one partner that loved to have sex while I was wearing lace panties (you can pull them to the side, btw), fishnet hose and spiked heels.. If it worked for him it worked for me.
     
  11. rg paddler

    rg paddler Senior Member

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    The best thing if you've both been at work all day is to just leap into that old comfy bed naked and embrace.ahhhh

    But by far kinkiest I ever had was on the way out to the shops in Winter - we were just about to leave - with hats n gloves n everything on when we accidentally got kissing and she had a long dress on which I hoisted up from behind - we took nothing off - but then it was a bit of a slap bang thank you maam kind of deed - but she liked that every now and then
     
  12. Anastazija

    Anastazija Member

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    Doesnt matter for me. It dont have to be super sexy
     
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