Yes. But you also have to tantilise and tease. And once gotten an Aries is likely to drop you from boredom. So once gotten you have to rock his or her world and keep them coming back for more by always showing new facets of your personality. Aries is into mind games, so you have to always keep him interested. As the first of the signs he is innocent, so new experiences have to constantly be presented to him. (That's why he's fearless - he has to try everything, get burned, learn.)
If your in it for the long haul I would probably have to say yes. Nothings worse then when the fire goes out. When it's not exciting. That's how it is for me at least.
i have a particular aries in mind as a potential long relationship, and im a pisces. i can kinda already see it may be a typical aries-pisces relationship. i constantly find myself wanting to merge with him, but i manage to make him evasive (not a usual trait for aries) and im the one hating the fact that the "title" of bf/gf is taking kinda long for my taste. i also wanna know if aries are keen to play mind games...something in particular happend where something he said got back to me to make me jealous and he knew it would get back to me, so i have a hard time believing im jus being played, or maybe he thought he had me figured out and then was bored with me, i dunno????
Just tell him that theres no reason for you to be jealous because he is already yours. He'll appreciate being owned. Aries likes being first (like Leos) and they test every relationship. Pisces will rock his world sexually (at least it did mine. She ruined me for other women. Even though she was promiscuous she still had standards. Unfortunately, she flirted with a guy in front of me, so the relationship was over. One big trouble with my Pisces woman was that she always had to be right, and she always had to mold her man into her image. I didn't need too much molding as I was good looking and successful at the time. Yeah, I'm still in love with her to this day.) Be very open and honest with him. Tell him how you were hurt. Ask that he not do it again. Earn his trust. He'll then be like a faithful dog. Of course, the usual disclaimer: all people are different, their personalities come from their childhood and experiences, each has had a different road in life. But if you can make him laugh, so that he forgets his troubles, he'll be yours. (That's one trait I look for since my Taurus girlfriend made me fall in love with her at first sight. I would come home angry at the world, gashing my teeth and breathing fire and brimstone. Within 60 seconds of coming through the door she'd have me rolling on the floor laughing my head off. "Oh, poor boobie has had a bad day..." I can still hear her sweet voice. I'm still in love with her to this day, too. She played the part of the dumb blonde. It was all a fascade and I was the one who saw right through her little act. She fell in love with me.) So, be honest, be playful, respect each other's feelings. Get to know each other and know that there is no room for game playing (unless it is of a sexual nature and you both consent.) I wish you both best wishes and pray that it works out. Just don't become a victim of a head playing "player". Life is too short to go without real love.
thank you so much white_feather but i dont even kno if he'll go for that. i also think a big part of it is that i have never told him i liked him (verbally) but thru my actions i thought it was apparent. but we have different temperments....and that is the reason why we dont kno how the other truely feels. (sorry if saying 'potential long term relationship' i meant that we are now getting to kno/kno each other as friends now and i really feel very strongly for him) the thing he did to make me jealous was that he told a mutual friend that he 'was feelin' her and they are supposidly also getting to kno each other as friends. but the night he knew i found out, and the fact i didnt bring it up but he could tell i was sad, he texted me and asked me to prom. i didnt kno what to do, so 6 days have passed since then and i havent spoke to him....and he asked the other girl day(s) after when i didnt respond.
It's either that or you're the type of Pisces that can't speak her feelings of intimacy. My "ex" piscean wouldn't say the words, "I love you" but we both felt the passion and madness. Unfortuantely she was using me to trap her man, making him jealous. She broke up with him and I told her to reconsider. We both made mistakes and we paid for them. Don't be afraid to speak your inner feelings. Don't give him an excuse to say "Why didn't you tell me?" Otherwise he'll feel justified that he asked you, you didn't respond and so he asked another girl. When he asked you out you should have let him know that you were hurt and .... But chances are that you didn't say anything least he leave you. But he left you just the same. And now you are going to carry this hurt for the rest of your life. (I, like everybody else, carry hurts. They aren't bad, we learn to live with them. But the problem is that our minds keep playing the "what if?" game. Then past memories become a pain. Yes, we keep thinking back to the good times too. So the mind is always going back between the past and the future and we keep missing the present. --- Sorry for going Buddhist on you, it's just the way I am.) Any way, I hope it all works out for you. Just be careful when you hook up with a Scorpio (the Aries 'flip side'.) Aries men do have their problems, but so do every other sign. If you both decide to make it work, it will work out. But you have to not play games, to open your heart and let it all hang out, for better and for worse (you can't have "either-or," it's "either-and".)
Yes ABSOLUTELY BUT, there is a fine line between playing hard to get and not giving them any attention at all- dont cross it. If you can find that balance between making an aries feel like they are so so important and not being easy. MY GOD, you will make them hot!! But dont forget ..back off then come on, back off then come on, back off then come one. Its a mind game in itself. oh and dont forget to surround yourself with many of your admirers. Not only does this remind aries of your value but the CHALLENGE will make them want you so bad!
oh and dont forget to surround yourself with many of your admirers. Not only does this remind aries of your value but the CHALLENGE will make them want you so bad![/QUOTE] hahahahh that is sooooo true! im an aries with a scorpio...mind you we have a VERY passionate relationship and it was interesting to see the comment about the scorpio is the aries' flip-side aha...we work through quite a bit. but anywhom i get verrrrry jealous of my scorpio cuz he is pretty much surrounded with friends all the time..he is right now...at least with one friend. i dont know why i get so jealous but i do, and it seems like he has a lot of followers and little 'disciples'...so im always viewing him as this almighty god...but not just cuz of his disciples but cuz he is. anywho...ahhha its fun reading about aries knowing that im not alone when i go ballistic over the smallest things. my poor baby has to put up with a lot
o yea one more thing...it didnt work with the pisces...that was my first and only time i got dumped...which happened to be the first time i fell in love it was really odd...we were very different but the duration of the relationship was pretty good...nothing went wrong until suddenly one day he didnt wanna be with me! it happened to be little girl he had a class with that made him change his mind about me ...anywho im completely satisfied with my scorpio and we're gettin married as soon as we can
i am aries. "But dont forget ..back off then come on, back off then come on, back off then come one" i truly HATE and despise girls that do that,for any purpose. i hate being lied to as much as i hate being cheated.and i am very jealous. i hate girls that falsly show themselves as challenging and unaccesible. if a girl did such things to me,i'd spit in her mouth at the first sign of weakness.that never happened because "i have amazing powers of observation" and when i see what she's trying to do i label her as a brainless piece of flesh surrounding a vagina, break contact in every possible way and find comfort with someone else.i'm nobody's slave,and if she's playing hard to get,she won't be had by me at all,wether she wants to or not. what i love in a girl is merciless honesty,regardless of my feelings;affection,loyalty,the capacity to see behind masks and dismiss them as pointless.senzuality,but not to be driven by instincts;we don't have half a kilo of brains to learn how to use the remote control.a leaning towards analyzing everything.playfulness,mainly in bed.to make me feel important to her,not as a tool,but as a loved one. to dismiss her admirers if she doesn't have anything serious in mind (did i mention i'm very jealous?).when i think i found my kind of girl and she doesn't give me any headaches,i'm faithful like a dog.i never cheated,although my instincts were screaming "you fool,go for it,you have just one life,she'll never know,go for it now!" to the point when my vision blurred and i could hear the blood running in my ears.
he brought up to me that he likes me and that hes interested in a long term relationship. i was hurt at the moment, so i didnt respond. we dont act all lovey dovey now even tho feelins are on the table, but i wanna step it up tho i dont kno how to bring upthe long term part and confess its what i want too
i'm not the typical aries so don't take my advice. just go for it,tell him without any reserves. after that,keep things interesting but not in a tense way. i repeat,don't take my advice.or take it,but don't blame me if it doesn't work.i don't know the guy and signs are not all there is to one's personality.
MMMh, I think that is way too general to state as being true, however an Arias does like a challange at least that is something that is said of this sign. I think I'd say an Arias likes the chase and wants to win you over by romancing another.
If I am a an Arias stereo type then I would have to say. Be frank(no sex change operation), I mean just tell it like it is. He will do so even if it isn't the best tactical plan. Just say what is on your mind, he will respect you for it. Well at least if he's anything like me.
