My girlfriend is one of the greatest girls i have ever had the pleasure of dateing. We have been going out for like 3 months and almost every weekend we would hangout. But i think she wants the relationship 2 end "either that or i am a paranoid muther fucker". We go to the same school and we hang out every lunch, but the last week i dident see her once! WE GO TO THE SAME SCHOOL!(but she started hanging out with her old friends) I'm almost positive she is avoiding me. I saw her last night at a bonfire party and i was waisted...she was sober....fuck! My head is really screwed up right now, im contemplating breaking up with her before she does the same to me (just to save a heart breaking). But i still like her(well i dont know if it is her, or her extreme good looks......wow i never thought of that before). I'm really confused right now. Mabye this is all in my head, mabye it isent. Plz people i need to hear what u think, im going fucking crazy
TALK to her. Relationships need communication to survive, to have a fighting chance. Maybe she was just feeling smothered by you recently and wanted a little space to breathe. Maybe she was worried that she was smothering you and backed off before it offended you. TALK TO HER
thats called high school drama. i started dating a guy outside of school just for that reason. my x boyfriend's locker is right next to mine, and i cant tell you ohw much i avoiding going there when we were going out. high school sucks man sorry
what is wrong with her hanging out with her "old" friends? are you so controlling and manipulative that you want her all to yourself? Did you run her friends off, and now she's starting to rethink things? my advice would be to let it be. leave her alone, and see if she calls you. Let her figure out what she wants, and let it be her decision. no pressure, you know? But do let her know how you feel. send her a love letter, write her a poem, and wait to see what her reaction is.
^^no i dont tell her who to hangout with. Its just that i think her friends are influenceing her 2 avoid me. W/e im gonna break up with her. I should have just got what i needed out of her on the weekends and broomed her. fucking relationship bullshit
If her friends are influencing her to leave you, I think she has some pretty damn good friends. You're probably hurting right now but a better man wouldn't spew the filth you just spit.
if you want to break up, break up it sounds like you do and like you just wanted to fuck her, and have no consequences/responsibility/relationship beyond the physical side. So do both of you a favour and split up. Make sure your next girl knows you don't want a relationship just a fuckbuddy.
ignore these girls. if the relationship becomes a hassle, end it. chicks are all the same and there are always more.
no, we are all very much different. some of us won't put up with abusive controlling bullshit, but some will. Even those who do put up with it might someday snap and either leave or shoot the man who has mistreated her too long. some of us recognize the potential for domestic violence in men who think they should have a say in who a girl's friends are or what she does with her free time. and even if the relationship never becomes physically abusive, there's still the emotional and psychological abuse that comes from dating a boy who has absolutely no respect for women and treats them like things instead of people. It's the lucky ones who get out of those relationships before it turns ugly.
that wasn't my point. my point was that he shouldn't get too worked up over it, because another girl will always come around.
