i feel dumb

my personal ad addiction has .. well
i replied to an ad.. and it turned out to be a man that i had turned down to date.

sorry but i'm just not attracted to him. he lives 45 minutes away. doesn't have a car. is very busy with his work and band. guess i could list other reasons.. but ill be nice..

now i think he's mad at me.. oh well

god damn it.. i just need to give up

 

Nawww - get back in the saddle...

 

you find everything you need with or without ads
dont give up its out there for you
~much love

 

thanks for the offer.. i've already received plenty

 

i was trying to be nice to this guy.. and not just come right out and say something rude, because he had asked me more than once. then he had a girlfriend, and we were just friends.. so i thought.


hell i even invited him over for thanksgiving turkey. picked him up from the bus stop and took him back. i think we'd do just fine as friends.. but ugh.. maybe i'm truely dumb for trying to be friends with guys that want more than a friendship from me

 

thanks anyways.. ask me when i'm really upset over my next failed attempt at a relationship.. i'm usually at my "craziest" then

 

hold up.. he's messaging me.. i'ma cry like a girl .. i can tell

 

have you ever seen when harry met sally? the part about men and women never being able to be 'just friends' is so true. the sex thing always gets in the way

ps, good luck, you're a sweet gal, i'm sure that the perfect guy for you will come into your life when you're the most ready for him to.

 

thanks. i feel like an ass too. i know what it's like to like someone more than they like me. nothing can be done.

i just need to work on being single.. gonna be really hard for me though

 

I feel for you Boogabah.

One time during a multiple personality disorder episode I answered one of my own personal ads and wound up getting together with myself.

It was Ok, we had a good time, but personally I think i can do better.

 

thats what i've decided to do.. aim out of my league

 

I think most of us know how it is to like someone more than they like you. It sucks. But at the same time I stayed in my last relationship longer than I should have because I didn't want to hurt him like I'd been hurt by someone else earlier.

Sadly, I realized I hurt him more by staying than if I had just made a hasty exit. If it's not there for you, its not there. Give yourself a week or two and I bet you'll be more receptive to the idea of a relationship with someone.