What Non-Physical Attribute Most Attracts You to the Opposite Sex

Mark Twain wit and intelligence and the ability to effectively communicate it.

 

I love a woman who can intellectually challenge me and can be experimental/creative!

That is #1 in my book.

 

Sense of humor and conversation skills.

 

an intelligent girl, dangerously sexy, always trying to one up each other(but not in a totally competitive way), very open and very willing to experience new things, full of energy, wild, likes to be outside/be active and physical, will not be controlled/no interest in controlling me (unless its sex then control games are awesome)

 

brains!a lot of women should be kept in a closet,used when needed and locked back.

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alternative thinking,self-esteem (proudness),some self confidence,high energy,kinkyness,culture,artistic sense,honesty,communicativeness.

 

Here are the qualities I find attractive in women, in order of importance. I call it The Seven Cs...

1. CHEERY
This is the number 1 thing I find attractive. Women who are cheerful, warm, friendly and fun. Women who smile and laugh a lot. Women who are optimistic and can see the humour in anything. Women who can make a joke out of themselves! I like women who can make me laugh.

2. COOL
I find it unattractive when women are feisty, bossy, stubborn, selfish or manipulative. The most attractive woman to me is cool, calm, laid back, patient, tolerant and supportive.

3. CHERISHING
I find it very attractive when a woman holds me with high regard, respects me, appreciates the things I do, finds me interesting and laughs at my jokes.

4. CLEAN
Like most people, I find poor hygiene and bad health off-putting. A non-smoker is a definite for me, but also I like someone who keeps themself healthy and lives a clean lifestyle (like me).

5. COMPASSIONATE
I am also attracted to the 'motherly' aspect in women: women who are caring, warm and compassionate,who love kids, animals and anything cute. Women who empathise with other people's problems, and feel a loss when someone dies.

6. CANDID
I am put off by arrogance, pretentiousness or snobbery; the most attractive woman for me is one who is down-to-earth, genuine, open, wysiwyg, humble, and can admit when she's wrong and apologise.

7. CONFIDENT
Finally, I'm attracted to strong, independent women with self respect, confidence and self-beleif. Women who have their own opinions and aren't afraid to express them I find very attractive. Confidence is so sexy!

 

To me, a sexy woman is one who is relaxed and comfortable with herself.

 

Hmm, interesting.

 

She can't be a goody goody, and being able to play an instrument helps also. I don't like girls who obsess over cloths and make up.

 

Like many have said, a good sense of humour. Also kindness, sensitivity, and I like affectionate girls (Although most are anyway).