I hate sex! What's wrong with me????

Seriously.

My boyfriend get so aggrivated because when we do have sex I'm not into it.

It's not just him, it's been like that with every partner.

It honestly feels like nothing, just a blob of skin going inside me.

I wish I could enjoy it!

Please help me!

 

foreplay?!?!?!?!?

 

Have you ever been able to pleasure yourself masturbating?

 

yes and it doesn't work


I am on an anti-depressant but when I asked my doctor about it she said it isn't a know effect of the type i'm on. She even halfed the dose and I get to stop taking it in two months. I haven't seen any improvement in the past few months.

I don't do drugs, I do drink, I am vegan, and I have good self-confidence (I am not embarassed of my body or anything).

Is it possible to just not have the sexual nerves down there?

Or I haven't been with too many guys, maybe I just need to aquire a taste?

 

What you need is some sexual therapy.

A blob of skin?

Maybe you need to experience the more psychological aspects of sex. Do you have any turn-ons? Use them. Think about things that turn you on: Bondage?, Spankings?, Other Women?, Libertine? ....

And try to experiment a little.

Good Luck!

 

that was lik eme at first, when i lost my virginty it felt like nothing but weve been sexual for about 7 months, after you get to experimenting looser its great! foreplay too, make him find your Gspot

 

you might just be A-sexual. Do yu actually like the idea of sex at all, or des the whole thing seem pointless?

 

Yes you could have neuropathy. I know of someone that has absolutly no feeling in that area.

 

no idea how old you are - but sometimes it takes the right person to bring you out of yourself - i didn't know hardly anything about me until a particular someone special made me aware - she also made me feel good.If I'm feeling shit about me i'm not very sexually up there - quite literally.

 

Might be psychological, any history of abuse?

 

First you should go to your PCP. To see if there is a chemical imbalance. Get checked physically. Then, if everything checks out. Have your Doctor refer you to someone who could help you. Good Luck....

 

I hated sex until my second serious boyfriend and then was a nymph for awhile after realizing how good it really is. now I'm not so fond of it anymore...but prob because it's been so long I have forgotten what it is like d:

 

Do you talk to your boyfriend about it? If he's aggravated, he may not understand what's going on. He might think it's him and not you.

 

sex is over rated

 

Oh-well, thanx for enlightening us; we weren't aware of that.

 

now you know, smartass

 

Maybe your just not ready for sex yet, maybe too young. Whats the relationship like with your partner? Are you very intimate? Known him long?

Also as some of the other guys have said, is masturbation a rareity, or have you never done it? Does anything in particular turn you on?

 

dont think this person is coming back