this is the first time i've ever been in love. he lives a couple days away from me but i went to go visit him and had two amazing weeks with him we made love a lot and had 2 fights abotu communication and we laughed a lot it was the best 2 weeks of my life and i dont want to give him up. but the thing is he doesnt really talk to me and he says things i have said before...he can be fake i HATE when people are fake i hate it i just want truth and realness you know? what do u think i should do
It sounds like he is hideing his true self. I dont like fake people either. Your also really young and in my opinion dont think its worthyour time. I think when you truly fall in love you connect on all levels. And remember there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. Do some pondering.
well it all comes down to one thing, either you love him or you don't. if you do love him being 'fake' wouldn't matter to you. and you know the other part. peace, Chronic
Do your research. Don't just sit pretty saying you love him. If he had fake streaks, find out who he really is. Draw it out, use cross references, be objective. I personally think you're been shot with a tranquilizer that has nothing to do with love. And that's fine, it happens to all of us. But if you're sensing something else, don't ignore it.
hmmm i really like him. last night i had a talk with him telling him if this is going to work we need complete and total honesty....he told me liked another girl but she is nothing compared to me he loves me...but i mean how can he like someone else too? is this normal? im so confused
Its easy to like 2 or more of anything. I mean I love the accents of spanish and french girls, love the looks of others, like the personalities of most asian girls, like the looks of some cars and the perfermance of others ect. Now you just need to decide if you like the multiple situations.
Hmm ... I'll admit that people have said lots of unkind things (most of which are true) about my boyfriends ... and from such experience I would say this fellow is having you on. It is normal for guys to like more than one of everything, especially girls ... I believe that monogamy is a social construct. However, the part about him loving you more ... is probably just a defense he is pulling to keep you on. He MAY be saying the same thing to this other girl! (If a boy is going to have multiple girls, he should have the decency not to RANK them ...) And if he led you to believe that you are the only one, then pulled this stunt ... dump him. Right now. There are many more better specimens out there ... trust me.
I don't think either of you are in love. How can you love someone that doesn't talk to you? How can you love someone that is fake? He told you he likes another girl but he likes YOU better? Bologna. He's using the two of you and you should dump him. There are plenty of guys out there that will do right by you. It's obvious this guy isn't ready for a commitment.
I really don't think this guy is all that interested in you; I mean, he likes another girl, also. If I was you, I'd find out why he likes this other girl and talk about this fakness that's really something I wouldn't stand for, there's gotta be total honesty.
hmmm wow the fakness is only when he says something that i have saifd before that is the only time he is "fake" whatever fake means we are complteley honest about everything and talk about everything to eachother...i feel his soul inside of me i have definately never felt this with any other guy before i really do love him. and this other girl he has a crush on, i still get crushes on guys too when im with someone. we are just totally honest to eachother about everything and tell everything so he told me that....i really love him. i dont want to just end it i dont think ill ever be this comfortable around another guy in my life or love another guy as much.....aaahhh! haha
He doesn't even live in the same town as you....not even close. How do you know he isn't playing you? For all you know....he could SAY he's telling you the truth and being honest, and he's out sexing this other chick. You should look into that....do you REALLY trust him? Do you really LOVE him? Or do you just love the IDEA of him?
ok well thats a given in any realtionship that someone could be playing you. yes i really trust him and yes i REALLY LOVE HIM! he's moving to my town this summer to be with me
He shouldnt be the slightest bit interested in other girls if he really likes you. When people have sex, they can develop really strong emotions, when actually he may not be right for you at all. Im not saying hes doing this, but guys can be extremely good at pretending to be in love with a girl, sometimes just for sex. If it concerns you enough to post up on a relationship forum then id say its quite a big problem. You need to talk about the problem and exactly what you think it is. Tell him how it bothers you. If he doesnt change, leave him.
