Is longer sex better?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by RetroGroove_Grrl, Aug 3, 2004.

  1. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    I tend the believe it isn't

    how about you lovely people?
     
  2. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    that's a bit general dontcha think?


    sometimes a passoniate quickie is fun, sometimes a more drawn out seesion is better, guess it depends on peoples moods at the time
     
  3. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    open ended posts give people more creative freedom, but maybe it was...


    the thing is, thats what I wanted to know...

    not so much:

    "Is longer sex better when its raining outside at 3 in the morning on a monday and you have your purple bed sheets on"
    :p ;) tehehe
     
  4. Pablo

    Pablo Member

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    well thats the great thing about sex, You can do it all sorts of ways. So variety is the best in my opinion. Sometimes i like to take a nice long time kissing her, touching every part of her body, spending a long time apriciting and feeling (and kissing and licking too depending on the part) every part of her body. Then looking into her eyes do her very slow and lovingly. Othertimes i like to pounce her, strip her naked, and just go wild on her, pasionatly kissing her all over and so on. I wouldent want to do it either way all the time. And then of cource there lots of other ways. Its all good. I definetly like to take a long time sometimes, so i can apriciate her beautiful curvey young body.
     
  5. xthevalkyriex

    xthevalkyriex Member

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    Ah yes...the great conundrum of sex. Guys want to last as long as possible, girls are afraid to tell their men that there is such a thing as lasting too long.

    Personally, after a half hour of sexual intercourse, I get sore and just want it to end.
     
  6. louray

    louray Member

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    ;) i believe that longer sex gives a strenuous workout, but after a while, in my opinion, it tends to start hurting.....and it always depends on whether your partner feels the same way!!:)
     
  7. Nisha

    Nisha Forlorn.

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    i donno if longer is better. when he's going really hard on me i barely last for 20 mins. sometimes if you can give him a good fuck for like 10 minutes and make it wild then it adds more heat for the next time. or if you fuck him but dont make him cum, thn the next time he'll be all over you.
     
  8. UnspokenThings

    UnspokenThings Member

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    a guys perspective here. i think if the sex is feeling good then it should last as long as possible, but eventually you cant help but cumming. sometimes cumming just takes a while, sometimes it doesnt. either way after cumming that is usually enough...

    but if the sex isnt good then you try and end it as soon as possible...
     
  9. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    if i could have sexual intercourse (not necessearily fucking) all day i would. for me, yes longer is better, but i can understand it hurting after a while for the womezies.
     
  10. high on life

    high on life Member

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    after a 12 hour shift in work, quickie is the answer or oral!!!!!!!!

    but on ya days off i think the longer the foreplay is the better result but that is me we r all diffrent. but all like getting it some how.
     
  11. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    I think longer sex is better in general, or having sex, sleeping, having sex, sleeping, dreaming, having sex, waking up and wondering if you dreamed it all....then having sex
     
  12. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    not in my case. In my opinion the longer the foreplay the better it is!!! sometimes itsn't necessary to spend a long time in the foreplay, but it has to be good!!! after the first orgasm i get sore and i need to stop for a bit. then back to action and it's all good again. I dont like to be humping like rabbits for an hour...it's best to have some variation, after all sex allows you to be creative!
     
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  14. Takemenow

    Takemenow Senior Member

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    i think that it depends. sometimes slow sex is great and some times fast is even better..depends on the mood that ur trying to create
     
  15. Hopper

    Hopper Guest

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    Depends what you mean by long.

    I believe that extended foreplay is a lot better than a quickie.

    My honey gets really riled up when I take my time and get her in the mood with my hands and mouth.

    I like to make her glow and purr before we get down to real business.
     

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