cool folks

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by fieldrun, May 18, 2006.

  1. fieldrun

    fieldrun Member

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    what do you do when you always see someone who you think is pretty cool and you wanna hang with them, not romantic way, but someone who'd just be fun to chill with?

    what should i say- "you're cool dude" ?? "nice shoes" ??
     
  2. Brand New Soul

    Brand New Soul Senior Member

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    Say hey .....nice shirt.... I love that band. (if this is a true statement say it) Or something about them that you like. Then gradually keep talking to them. Find common ground..Whats your favorite band? Man this class is going by so slow. Just say little thing and eventually it will prgress into a conversation. And altemitly friends.

    I don't know if thats the best social advice...seeing as Im not a huge social person. But I notice thats always how I start conversations and have gained friends over the years.
     
  3. YankNBurn

    YankNBurn Owner

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    Say "dude my life is not quite cool enough, can I hang with you and absorb some of your coolness" Just kidding, :)
     
  4. Suncatch22

    Suncatch22 Member

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    Guys usually aren't very worried that girls are trying to "make a move" ... but if after a while he seems to be moving in that direction, there are kind ways to put him off.

    Just befriend him casually, and answer the romance question if and when it comes up. :)

    Good luck!
     

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