Well, there's your problem right there. If that's what your basing all of your self worth on, you've got a big problem. THAT'S what I would say is a little blasphemous. What about love? You're just making the sex and the women (and yourself) into a commodity, it seems. If I was Supreme Emperor of the Universe, I'd make guys like you settle down and marry some nice, plain looking girl, and force you to find out what love's all about. Sex is overrated if you have it as the be all and end all of life.
DQ veg is right. love is much better than sex.it's not a race,you don't have to have sex with as many women as possible.don juan had nothing on romeo.
i'd have to agree with the two dudes who posted before me. sex with someone you don't care much about (let alone love) isn't that good in my experience. i have more fun masturbating than having sex with someone who's just a fling, because to me it only feels good if i care for the person. i don't have to be madly in love with the person, but i feel better if i am friends with or have known the person long enough to grow a bond with them. you don't bond by fucking, you bond by getting to know who someone is. i've enjoyed sex with one or two casual partners, but i had spent time getting to know them, and that's why the sex was good. i've been in love twice, and the second person i've been in love with was the one i got to have sex with (my first love was when i was too young to be fuckin). sex with someone you are in love with is absolutely amazing, especially when the two people communicate well and know what turns the other on.
what the others said, plus... you said you focus on the prospect of sex with gorgeous women... shouldn't you be more worried about great/amazing/out-of-this-world-great sex instead? I mean, the most gorgeous woman in hte world could lay there like a log, it could be terrible sex
