I already made an extremely long post about this same topic, but I still need clarification. I am friends with this girl, and I did take her out a couple of times, but I need to know if she thinks if were going out as more than friends. Like when were doing stuff, shes acting as if we were flirting (such as if it were another girl it would be flirting), but she might be just doing it because were friends. Im just trying to figure out how direct I should be. She is a really good friend, and I was wondering if I should just tell her I like her out of honesty and make sure she knows whehter she feels the same way or not I would like us to remain friends. Or I could possible keep trying to make "moves on her" and hope for the best, but I have a feeling that could put us in an akward situation and then we'd end up talking about it anyways. Any advice?
yup, that's what i did and had a relationship for a month. Still, i played the friendship side too much and didn't 'ignore' her enough... i dunno something like that, it's hard to keep a balance when feelings get in the way. Good Luck
ya know, she is probably out there talking with her friends asking them the same questions as you! TELL HER! be brave and just tell her, you will never have a chance of getting what you want if you don't and you will end up hurt anyway. chances are you are both 'circling' each other in the same fashion, not knowing how to act or what the intentions of everything are and equally driving yourself crazy with trying to figure out how to behave around each other. save both of you alot of frustration and guessing games and let her know what's up, sounds like she is waiting for you to do so anyway! the best of luck!
