The other night, my lover came home from the sex shoppe and he'd bought three different sized butt plugs and a giant strap-on. He says he wants me to fuck him with the strap-on, but I've never done it before. Here's the deal: I was wondering if any guys here have been fucked with a strap-on? If so, do you have any advice/warnings/suggestions, etc? He likes to be dominated sometimes, so should I make a whole deal outta it and put on the dominatrix outfit and make him my little bitch or should I approach the situation with a little more sensitivity? Any opinions are welcomed. Thanks everyone. Bella xoxo
I've let a girl use a small buttplug on me once and it was only after i had given her deep anal and we had lube and were being nasty. Lube is vital, dress up however you want, and don't forget his penis. The buttplug is not the main course but a side dish.
I couldn't agree more on the lube thing. We have this numbing anal lube that's awesome. Without it, I might never have let him butt-fuck me.
i never heard it called that before i guess it depends on how liberated/experienced your lover is - he bought it so he must be up for it - then again if he's never been in that position before it might freak him out - i was given the oppurtunity of being fucked by my at-the-time women - but i declined as it was just one step too far for me - I sort of turned into Mr I-don't-do-that-shit.But then i'm not really one for having things up my ass.With this stuff the question i always wonder is - how far are you prepared to go - like i'd do stuff cos it sometimes seemed we'd got bored of all the regular stuff - like sometimes we'd be having domestic problems and would sometimes just fuck em away like the hard sex made other shit look really small but perhaps i was in an unhealthy relationship.If you're not in that kind of a deal - then wtf.But you must a been fucked up the ass so i suppose the same initial warm ups apply.E.g if you hear him go 'aaaaaaaaaaarghhhhhhhh' - you might ask if he's in pain and wants you to stop a minute/in pain and wants you to carry on - fuck him even harder/or in plain ecstasy dont know about buttplugs
Thanks for the input, rg paddler. We have a healthy relationship and this is just something he's wanted to do for a while. I'm all for it, I love experimenting with new things. However, I will admit I was a little surprised when he brought it home. Thanks for the tips, hun! I appreciate it.
I'd say ease into it just to be safe unless y'all are both just gung ho about getting right down to the nitty gritty. If so,then by all means!!! I've had an ex fuck me just with a dildo once while she went down on me. That was fun but I don't think I could let a girl fuck me with a strap-on. One: I'm not much into being dominated by a female & two: females don't have much experience doing the fucking with a cock...lol. So I wouldn't want to get hurt in any way if she decides to get carried away & fuck me in the way that some guys like to fuck....HARD! lol.
If hes worried you could always get him to put it in himself, then once hes comfortable you can start fucking him.
I have it done a few times and really enjoy it. The best time was with a chick who use to use the strsap-on on her g/r. She fuck we very well...and I use to come like crazy. Use alot of lube and if you have different size dildo, work your way up from small to large. Its not much different then if he was doing you ass. He has to relax so that the dildo will go in with out much resistance. Good luck, I wish I was him...
