My best friend was very bad about getting naked in front of me. But when we were in the hot tub last night i convinced him to take off his bathing suit and we both got in the pool naked together and wrestled. This may be the 1st step and i could have gone father but my parents got home. any suggestions about seducing him.
seducing...lol.. i think it sounds like u souldnt need to seduce him.. someone has to make the first move..lol that reminds me when me and my friend went skinny dipping... ya... my brother came outside..it was pretty awkward [sp]...
First off, is he your best friend, or more of a love/sexual interest...? Secondly, you shouldn't have to "seduce" him. If he is gay, then it might work out; as stated above, someone has to make the first move. Consider what means more to you, a best friend, a possible fuck buddy/boyfriend, or possibly even losing the friendship you have. good luck.
Annoying though it is, some straight people are just REALLY comfortable with other guys? They have a habit of making you feel like a sex-obsessed nympho pervert for reading any sexual connotations into their enthusiasm for naked wrestling and backrubs though.
Dangerous... I wouldnt recommend trying to seduce a friend or anyone who isnt out as gay purley because it could go pop yuet if his gay christ get in there !!!
hey,m damn, your guess is as good as mine. i mean, if hes willing to wrestle naked with you in a pool! try kissing him- with your clothes on...or something like holidng hands. hold hands a bit. good luck but yeagh, like selfcontrol said, there are some REALLY FUCKING ANNOYING straight guys who are REALLY comfrtoable with otehr guys and will practically be naked with you and bend over, but WON'T let you touch them. its really fucking annoying, like i siad. Cheers, Dylan
Did I mention that those guys are asking for it? I mean, if you can handle the guilt afterwards, and let's face it, if he's hot enough you totally can.
This is a situation that can go many different ways. It's possible for a 100% heterosexual guy to be *that* comfortable with someone gay that he'll wrestle nude with him. As far as I can tell, it's very rare. It's also possible that he's gay and not ready to deal with all that goes with it. If you push him too quickly, you might not get any action and you could very likely lose a friend. It's a very real risk with such guys. Do you want to take that risk?
Wow, yeah I definitely wouldn't recommend doing anything to hurt your friendship if he is such a close friend. It is possible that something more could develop other than just being fuck buddies. I'm currently dating my best friend, and it's seriously the best relationship I've ever been in. I guess it all just depends on the situation.
When I was 18 I met a guy at work. I was very attracted to him and worked at developing the friendship. I didn't have to work that hard though cuz we hit it off and were best friends for years. I was so infatuatuated with him I couldn't stand it. I never acted on it cuz I was afraid or ruining our friendship. He even asked me once and I denied it. Eventually we drifted apart. A few years later we hooked up again through a mutual friend. By then everyone knew that I was gay. We talked about it and he told me that if I had only admitted how I felt that things would have been different. I loved this guy with all my heart. We spent every waking hour together for several years. If I had told him how I felt in the beginning, who knows how it would have turned out. We did finally hook up and it was great. But it could have been so much more if I had told him in the beginning. Yeah I would have risked losing a friend but in retrospect the risk would have been worth it. I got into a similar situation a few years ago. The guy swore he was straight. We became very good friends. I never denied or hid my sexuality. He was cool with it. I spent the night at his house one night and right before we went to bed ( in separate rooms) he told me that if I came in his room he wouldn't wake up as long as I didn't say anything. I was thinking okay well thanks for the info. If that wasn't an invitation, I've never had one. I didn't act on it at the time cuz I felt uncomfortable about it. But we are still friends and I recently confronted him about it. He admitted that it was an invitation. the moral of this story is i regret keeping my feelings to myself and I would never do that now. If I meet someone I like, I let them know--somehow--how I feel. if wisdom came before youth we would all be so much happier.
To be honest, this is what guides me these days. As has come up in other threads, a lot of people seem to think it's pointless and dangerous to tell people you love them even if you think they don't feel the same. But given the alternative, I think it's always worth it. The vast majority of people do like to be loved, even if it is by a dutty little faggot.
First, he is my best friend, lived next door to me my whole life (literally). Secondly, he is the least touchy guy i know. A hug from just about anyone but an extremely hot girl will make him back away since he sees all male contact as gay. He even thinks its gay to get naked in the same room with another guy. What happened was we were getting in the hot tub, i took off my swimsuit and dared him to do the same, and he did. I then dared him to get in the pool naked and I would too and we both did it. I then pinned him underwater and e struck back, and we then did that for about 15 minutes. I then suggested that we go look up some porn and he wanted to, but unfortunatly my parents decided to come home instead of renting a hotel room in the city after a basketball game. So thats all but if I have another alone night i might try it again. He figured out on his own I was gay (Im not a flamer by any means), but since he relized it himself he just figured i was always this way so our relationship never changed. Im pretty sure he doesnt know i have a crush on him though, so if I started hitting on him 1 of 2 things will happen: We will do it or He might think differently of me.
When I was in high school, I met a guy who played for another team. We became friends and later lovers. There was a lot of stuff with eye contact and some physical contact, but nothing really serious. We figured things out pretty quick. The funny part is that one of the coaches of his team is my cousin, and he told me that he had been hoping that we would meet.
Imran had never been a gay, but even then he loved me a lot since early school time. That time my school was full of sodomites and many of them took interest in me. I was not a gay and disliked it at school. When I was at college, I felt i am gay.There was no one with whom i could share it. So, i went to imran's house and asked him to show me his cock and when he did, i was surprised to see his body full of thick hair and a very huge cock...I also stripped myself and showed him my neat and clean plumpy smmoth body, but he was not gay and disliked my act...but with the passage of time i stripped my buttocks many times before him...At last he agreed, but with difficulty....So he stripped my dresses and made me thread-bare.....and when we embraced, i loved it a lot...He oiled my ass and slowly entered his rod like organ into the narrow and tender ass.i cried loudly, but he remained firm till it started bleeding......i seduced my best friend for long term sexual relationship......
Tricky. If you can engineer a similar situation again, and while you're holding each other just make eye contact for a while, just thinking about him and what means to you. He'll see that you want him - there's no way he won't know if he sees how you look at him - and if he feels the same you'll know, he'll say something, or just carry on holding eye contact; that's when you go in for a kiss or something. If he doesn't seem to respond, I'd chalk it down to experience. Have to say though, I'm amazed you managed to do all that and not get a hard-on.
