Im stuck in a damn rut. Well it seems that way atleast. So i met this chick about 2 weeks ago and we get to talkin. She turns out bein a really cool chick and we start kickin it here and there. Shes a little on the crazy side, she has an edge to her. Anyways last week we made out, and ever since then when we chill we have been makin out and flirty with each toher. At times she seems to be really into me, and at other times it seems like im just some fool to her. So far we have done nothing really but make out and it seems not to be progressin much from that. I am begining to wonder if she is just keeping me in limbo cuz I have money and a car. Gold digger kinda shit. So maybe some ladies can answer to me what they think. Do chicks just kiss guys for the fun of it? Welp I do like this chick and I can't get her out of my head. I want to so badly cuz I know ima end up getting hurt, but she is all i think about anymore. It sucks! Im just lookin for some advice from anyone....
2 weeks and she's all you think about? Does she have a beer flavored tongue that sings and dances? My advice....tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way.
^^ Good advice. However... maybe she doesn't want a relationship? I mean there are plenty of girls out there that want that, but some just kind of want to make out with you and fool around like at parties and dates and stuff, and thats really all they want too. I think the gold digger theory only applies to guys who spend tons of money on their girls... are you doing that? Maybe try and not get so attached to her, or tell her how you feel, its as simple as that in my book (or maybe I don't see the true situation).
A fool how? Any person who treats you with disrespect already has placed you in a subordinate position, or has an immense inferiority complex. The latter being an ironic inversion of the former. I think you already know something does not feel right and there's insincerity speckled all over. You know what's best but you're clouded by both lust and infatuation. My advice - stick around longer to find out her true character and if she's worth your time. That is, if you can tolerate that strong "used like a doormat" feeling you're having right now. All the best, mate.
Some women are just hard to read. Some are just really odd. I used to date a girl whos idea of foreplay sometimes consisted of exploiting vulnerabilities. One of her favorites was taking away my glasses and/or hiding them because she knew that I desperately needed them. I'm so nearsighted that without my glasses have to walk with my hands out in front of me to keep from walking into walls or other obstacles. Anything more than a couple of inches in front of me is a total blur. One time I dropped my glasses and after after a few minutes on my hands and knees groping for them, one of my hands brushed against my glasses but before I coud pick them up she kicked them out of my reach.
No, I didn't like it very much but I didn't really mind the first few times. But being rendered helpless so often gets old in a hurry.
