if your not trying to catch pervs and are really 13.. your conflicting with yourself. Your draw is Help me hippies I have a problem and then when we do, you say it's not a problem. You must be 13, or not a very intelligent agent.
Gatey and Okie.. it's ok we still love your old asses.. we can use duct tape to hold up the loose skin and they have viagra now so you can get it up at least once.. we know.. your not as good as you once were BUT your as good ONCE as you ever were..heh heh..
True enough. But, can WE being responsible Older folks afford to take that chance? When we could as easily give GOOD advice, such as to protect herself, and be very careful who she give private info to? I prefer to do that, and help. Even if it's an accident. But ya know me Shameless... It's the DAD in me.
I agree with MAttInVegas here, I do belive you are just going through a faze also like morcheeba said earlier, you will outgrow it later. :sunglasse
Hang on a min... (sorry can't remember your name) do you just mean you have a crush on the dudes from The Beatles or something? But anyway your hormones are probably going crazy at this time and you'll probably get all sorts of weird crushes. It's not unusual to get a crush on your teacher, for example. But if any older guy in real life (including your teacher) makes a move on you (and takes advantage of those racing hormones you have) then in my opinion he's a sicko.
Matt, Yes of course, The young lady should be careful..I was thinking it was someone she knew in real time. I didn't think about him being on the 'net'. Never, ever give out your personal information over the internet or phone to someone you don't know. It really is a dangerous place out there in the world.. Take it from one who has seen the darker elemets of peoples nature. Kids think we make these things up to scare them. We don't.. it scares us to think of youngers being in harms way. Even adults have to be careful. It is hormones most likely, like Sage said and will pass. Just as long as you don't act on your mixed up feelings you will be alright Brightest Blessings sh
Ditto... Flowerchild or Lt. Bob, whichever. The good folks above are giving you wise advice. I've conversed with most of these people about a great many subjects, and can safely say that we all vigorously oppose the activities of internet predators and the like. We've given you some quality advice. Act on it. Don't give up your personal info, don't sound desperate, etc.. So, flowerchild..best of luck. Lt. Bob, nothin' personal...just not interested. (Hey!....this duct tape is some crazy stuff. Help me shameless..) peace ya'll
Oh my goodness Okie Your not suppose to put it there Not there where there's hair It's gonna be rough Pullin' off that stuff So lite up that Nug Prepare for the tug This will hurt you more then me. But never fear and shed no tear For I'm here to save the day.. OMG you put it WHERE.. I aint touchin' that. heh heh sh
well, in 45 years you can have all the 58 guys you want and no one will say anything about that........................(ó_ò)..................
i ment, in 45 years you can have all the 58 year old guys you want..........meanwhile, try neopets.com, where you can create a virtual pet.....................(ô_ô)............
Flower Child, What's your relationship with your father like ? Is he around ? Are you close ? Usually when you're attracted to someone that much older its because you're seeking a loving father relationship that maybe you haven't experienced. If that's the case, you really need to talk about this to someone you trust , an older woman you respect. If you are meeting men that old who are coming on to you or encouraging a romantic/sexual relationship, get away from them. They're not good people and they don't care about you. Steve
just talk to that one guy that was on here last week talking about how its "okay" for older people to fall in love with younger people and vise versa
Hemp, Having a 13 yr old grand daughter myself, I have to say right now, that she has NO idea about the love/sex between a grown man and a grown woman. She IS NOT ready for sex, she is not ready for adult love bc she is still a CHILD with a childs mind. I'd like to keep her that way for a few more yrs, till she's all done 'cooking'. I would have to take out after some dude 58 looking at my babygirl like that.. He had better be TEN FOOT TALL and BULLET PROFF cuz he's going down otherwise. It's not about young loving old , this is about Preditors and pedofiles stalking kids on the net. If a woman of 18 were to be involved in a relationship with a 58 yr old man, no prob.. but a minor child..NO WAY!! The man's a pedofile. I have noticed that the origanator of this thread hasn't even posted in a week.. so what does that tell ya?!?
i might get hit for this,but i still find a 58 yearold with an 18 year old a bit off.Now a 98 year old with a 58 year old...
yes Gate I agree, but it's better then a 13 yr old dontcha think. I would still see the male as a pedofile if he was with an 18 yr old. But it isn't against the Law so what can ya do?
Flower_Child, I absolutely understand you. I've always liked older guys, and if I say older, I don't mean like 5 years older... Once, I almost got in a relationship with a man, who was about 45 years older, because he's been a musician, and a legend of czech rock music, so he's got a lot to say ... about things, that I've been interested in. Maybe that's why you like older men, because they seem to be much more clever, interesting and so on, than guys in your age. I absolutely understand you, so I wouldn't say "don't do that! If you want to have a boyfriend, have a BOYfriend, not a man who could be you father or even grandfather" - that's what I heard when I told somebody about that 60yrs old man ... Now I admit it wasn't love, I was just interested in him, but I don't say you couldn't truely fall in love - the question is if he would also love you, or just have fun of your age ... So the only advice from me: be careful ...