what are your guys' views on just hookin up at parties with people you might not havnt previously known? i duno.. on the first hand its fun and exciting but on the other, it makes me feel more lonely cause i am always thinking of the person i really want to spend my time with.either that or i yearn for someone who actually likes me. what do yuo think?
I don't think it's for me but if you're safe with it, more power to ya Don't think I could do more than makeout with someone who I only met that night, I need a little more time for a person to settle into my head.
It's kinda slutty to meet a guy....at a party....never having known him before....and hooking up (by that I assume you mean sexually) with him. To each his own, though.
Making out is always fun, you can just stick to that at parties that way you can have fun but if you end up regretting it because you were drunk or whatever then its not a big deal.
By whos measure? Societies? What is "normal"? Is there such a thing? I think so long as you are not expecting anything more than physical gratification, then more power to you... I am a man who does not see the distinction of male vs female and what is or isnt slutty... I do not understand why it is accpetable for a male to try and have sex, and not a woman... Hell women even mature faster, and know what they want... Is it morally wrong? Probably so, but no one should say if something is or isnt slutty, as that shows you ahve made a determination yourself... "Do not judge, least ye be judged yourself..." Do what YOU feel comfortable with, and if you want someone who will respect you for you, then do not cave at the first sign that sex is needed to consumate a relationship... there are other ways to keep your partner happy. Personally I think the more a man respects you the more he will be willing to wait, and follow your wishes... if you know in your heart you do not want to, then DONT. Do not do anything you will regret, you can not take back things you have done, or words which you have already spoken. Good Luck!
I would say save it for someone special - not just some guy your attracted to who wouldnt care if he never saw you again.
If your safe (i.e. condom) and there's no problem with people wanting more, and it satisfies a need both people have, there is actually nothing to feel bad a bout, imo it's just society making us (especially women) think there is something wrong with wanting a one off sexual release with someone. There is only a problem when it starts being more about emotional release than a sexual one (if you become dependant on sex to deal with your emotions).
Go back and look at the last thing she said...."What do you think?" I think it's slutty. Whether the person is male or female....I think it's slutty.
If you constantly hook up with people, I agree, it's slutty. But drunken making out and stuff, no biggie. And yeah, it sucks because you feel lonely no matter what.
