Hi everyone, I have been looking for a place to come and talk and get advice when I need it. I have been going through some sort of "awakening" and wanted to know if anyone else out there can relate. About a year ago, I found out that my husband was having an affair. It changed me but in a good way. I have become the person that I have always wanted to be-sort of "woke up and started living". From the very start, I have always wanted them to remain friends but had the problem of him lying to me and not telling me the whole truth. Everything is going great now. They havn't talked to each other since last Oct. and today is he going to call and see if she wants to have lunch. I feel like I should have a problem with this because so many people say it can't work. It's not that I want an open marriage, I want them to be friends and that is ok with my husband. I use to be this jealous person but I can't find anything to be jealous or threatened by now. It just feels right. I have learned alot about myself and I am enjoying life so much now. I think this can only make it better. Can anyone relate? cat
Sure! But all I can really say is to re-iterate the old cliche... life is what you make of it! Sounds like you are making it work for you.
