Does this mean im gay/or bi

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by lalalamort, Jun 6, 2006.

  1. lalalamort

    lalalamort Fucked up upstairs

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    Ive notived that whenever i see a hot guy, on TV or something ill think. Hes hot.....and feel attracted to him. Ive also had sexual fantasies about other males?

    does this mean im gay/bi? or is just a phase a lot of tenagers go through?
     
  2. whereami

    whereami Member

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    Nothing wrong with being curious. You're not the only one.
     
  3. TreeFiddy

    TreeFiddy Member

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    Its never easy to tell...after all sexuality is not a concrete thing divided into three defined parts.

    When I was going through the period when I was denying I was bi, everytime I would feel attraction to a guy I would take time to convince myself that I wasn't feeling anything. Certainly don't do that. The day I accepted the possibility without any fear, it became clear that I was a bisexual. You're obviously being more open minded about it than I was, I think I agree with whereami and you're just experiencing curiousity, don't be afraid to explore it.
     
  4. Closet Kid

    Closet Kid Member

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    Join Us...Join Us (Ghostly Tone)
     
  5. lalalamort

    lalalamort Fucked up upstairs

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    lol....... i like your quote closet kid


    thanks for the advice everyone

    im not trying to convince myself im not because i dont relaly care either way.....just wondering
     
  6. Night_Owl49

    Night_Owl49 Since 2006

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    It doesn't really matter. I mean, if it feels right by all means go with it.
     
  7. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    I agree with what nightowl said...

    if you feel that you're attracted to men and want to identify yourself as gay/bisexual/whatever, then do it. It's your life, live it in the fashion you want to.
     
  8. lalalamort

    lalalamort Fucked up upstairs

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    i shall......i just dont want to "come out" before im sure
     
  9. gaz or jazz

    gaz or jazz Member

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    it means youre as gay as a daisy so get on with it and enjoy it.......... or it could be that your just discovering your sexuality.
    after all good looks are good looks whether there male female transgender or sheep
     
  10. whereami

    whereami Member

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    ^^^ I like this guy already^^^^
     
  11. Kempo

    Kempo Member

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    Sheep? ......SHEEP? ew.
     
  12. gaz or jazz

    gaz or jazz Member

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    some of them are real pretty....and plentiful where i live.
    but not wishing to take this off theme
     
  13. SelfControl

    SelfControl Boned.

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    I don't know if anyone's ever sure. But I'd save coming out until you've actually acted on those urges. Just makes it easier to be sure. I'd say just try it and it'll either feel right or it won't. You don't have to come out just because you enjoy it either though.
     
  14. whereami

    whereami Member

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    Why do you feel like you HAVE to come out? Even when you do decide to act on it,it's still your business what you do & no one else's. Just take care of yourself,find what you like,be safe,have fun. Nobody can tell you otherwise.
     
  15. okay

    okay Member

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    I agree. Perfect answer WhereamI!
     
  16. gaz or jazz

    gaz or jazz Member

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    yes agreed nailing your colours to the mast at such a tender age would spoil a lot of experimental fun and could lead to exploitation.
    just go and have clean safe sexy fun
     

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