Attracted to younger people?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Kandahar, Aug 6, 2004.

  1. Kandahar

    Kandahar Banned

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    So I'm 20 years old and I'm incredibly turned on by 15-16 year old girls. That's just a few years age difference, but unfortunately the law doesn't see it that way. Since I'm not very experienced, I wouldn't be "taking advantage" of them or anything like that. What do y'all think? Would it be wrong to do stuff with a 15-16 year old? It seems to me like they're old enough to consent and certainly old enough to know what they're doing.
     
  2. Bug_Man

    Bug_Man Banned

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    Don't feel bad. I'm 31 and I like 15 and 16 year olds too!
     
  3. Hopper

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    I would question why you are attracted to 15-16 year olds.

    Since there is only a 3-4 year difference in age, why would you not be attracted to 18 year olds ?
     
  4. Hopper

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    I would disagree.

    Especially at 31 years of age.

    15 years old is very young.

    I have to be honest in saying that I am disturbed by the thought.
     
  5. DarkLunacy

    DarkLunacy Senior Member

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    I have a friend like you... He only dates tiny tiny chicks... Yeah dude... Your probablly a pedophile
     
  6. Kandahar

    Kandahar Banned

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    I dunno, I guess because they seem more innocent or less developed? That's just a guess, truthfully I have no idea why anyone is attracted to anyone.
     
  7. Hopper

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    That question is easy

    If you believe in God...then you believe that God made you attracted to the opposite sex for companionship and procration

    If you don't believe in God...then you believe that we have evolved this was for....procreation.

    Same reason that you don't see a cat humping a bird.
     
  8. Kandahar

    Kandahar Banned

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    I meant that I have no idea why anyone is attracted to certain people or types of people (such as me being attracted to younger girls) as opposed to other people or other types of people...

    And while I've never seen a cat hump a bird, I have seen my male dog try to hump my male cat. :)
     
  9. Hopper

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    Dogs will hump anything. But there are thousands of species........so the Dog analogy doesn't prove any point regarding relativity of natural sex responses.

    Attractions is a whole different matter. I can look at a 15 or 16 year old girl and be attracted to her. Heck, I can look at a 15 year old girl and not know that she is 15.

    But if I were in a position to have sexual contact with an attractive young woman and I knew that she was 15 years of age.......I would not. I am 35 years old and have a child that is 11.

    If in a fit of drunken stupor I were to ever fall into that situation....I would feel guily about it later. Not because I am an American....but because I am a grown man who has the common sense to know right from wrong.

    But...If I were 20 or 21...then that would be another matter all together.

    BTW: I would recommend that you date Asian women. Based on your last comments I think you might find them to be physically attractive.
     
  10. Nisha

    Nisha Forlorn.

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    so what you're 20? wel i know sum girls who like kinda old guys (under 25). i dont think there's anything wrong with it. age is just a number, like making a candle, the wax has gone over this rope several times and now it's a thick belief that if you're 15 or 16 you should only be with people your age.. and that people over 18 are mature adults.. not all adults are mature jsut like not all 15/16 years olds like me are too stupid or young.

    to the society/law, yeah it would be wrong to have intercourse with someone younger... but aslong as you're not forcing it upon her and she wants the same, then use protection and make sure you arent seen. i'm surrounded by people who do this every week and get away with it.. but it's not fun to get caught... and remeber, she could use it against you anytime.

    and well, i don't think you're a pedo. whe ni was 13 i was going out with a soon-to-be 18 year old... he wasn't forcing me to do anything because he was pretty freaked out... just be careful thats all and liek i said, make sure she wants it too.
     
  11. Jannes

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    Lol give everyone a taste as long as they dont go for (real) children
     
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