I would put this in the men's forum but I'm getting shunned lol

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Bellfire01, Jun 13, 2006.

  1. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    You are on the beach and a hot little number walks by in a string bikini. She gives you a sexy glance as you are sitting there by yourself. You aren't asking for her company but she offers it anyway. You have a love fest at the beach and then you go home and share the knowledge with the one your with and she listens but isn't too thrilled. It's your relationship though, very open and it was agreed on long ago with no pressures or hang-ups. Do you think that it could work nowadays?

    ****Incidentally, I got the plot from the Carly Simon song. No Secrets.**** It's a great song and it makes me little sad sometimes to hear her pain.




    Just in case you want to see the words.

    No Secrets

    (carly simon)

    We have no secrets
    We tell each other everything
    About the lovers in the past
    And why they didn’t last
    We share a cast of characters from a to z
    We know each others fantasies
    And though we know each other better when we explore
    Sometimes I wish
    Often I wish
    That I never knew some of those secrets of yours

    The water was cold
    The beach was empty but for one
    Now you were lying in the sun
    Wanting and needing no-one
    Then some child came, you never asked for her to come
    She drank a pint of your rum
    And later when you told me
    You aid she was a bore
    Sometimes I wish
    Often I wish
    That I never knew some of those secrets of yours

    In the name of honesty, in the name of what is fair
    You always answer my questions
    But they don’t always answer my prayers
    And though I know you say that it’s me that you adore
    Sometimes I wish
    Often I wish
    That I never, never, never knew
    Some of those secrets of yours
    Some of those secrets of yours
    Some of those secrets of yours
    We have no secrets
    Telling each other most everything now
     
  2. Biggen

    Biggen Banned

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    I can't attract one woman, let alone two.
     
  3. LuckyStripe

    LuckyStripe Mundane.

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    Could? Yeah.

    Always? No.
     
  4. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    open relationships aren't for me

    (and you aren't getting shunned, folks just think it's too ridiculous a question to answer in there I think)
     
  5. Purple_Pan_Man

    Purple_Pan_Man Member

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    i was gonna abreviate this but its one of those rare times where it has to be typed out....



    " Rolling On The Floor, Laughing My F*ckin Ass OFF!!! "


    i made the comment cuz ive tried it and NO it DOESNT...
     
  6. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    Why? How is asking men what they do for fun ridiculous. I think that's how people learn about people.
     
  7. antithesis

    antithesis Hello

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    I would never be in an open relationship like that, I would never be ok with a boyfriend sleeping with/making out with/anything at all sexual with another woman. After my boyfriend and I broke up and then got back together he said that we were going to be in an open relationship and I was like, uh call it what you want but if you do anything with someone else your ass is getting kicked all over town and then left.
     
  8. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    maybe i'm selfish.. if i can't have someone all to myself.. i don't want them at all
     
  9. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    I'm with you. I'm also arrogant. There is no way possible that a man could be with me and another lady. He couldn't have that much energy or the smarts to keep it from me. I'm more than enough for any man I'm give my love to and he better know it.
     
  10. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    No way would I ever go for an open relationship, nor would my husband. The mere thought of me conversing innocently with the opposite sex or getting appreciate looks when we're out is enough to make his blood boil, and really, I'm the same way when it comes to him. [​IMG]

    I mean hey, that's not to say it doesn't work for some people, but for me, no freaking way.
     
  11. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    I would never involve myself in an open relationship, simply not my thing. When I'm with someone, I don't have any interest in other women. I might admire someone's beauty, but I wouldn't be interested.

    Why do you pose this question just for men though? Women are just as likely to be in an open relationship or cheat as men are.
     
  12. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    What about group sex?
     
  13. questing400

    questing400 Senior Member

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    No offense, but this sounds way to extreme to me. If you are really comfortable in your relationship (which it sounds like you are judging by your previous posts) why does talking with another guy make his blood boil? You obviously trust him and he trusts you. What's the problem an innocent conversation?

     
  14. bird_migration

    bird_migration ~

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    Dudes, if it is only sex we are talking about I do not see any problem. My girlfriend can fuck around as she pleases, why not?
    It is only sex for gods sake. I always wondered why people are so protective about that. Jealousy? Power? Egoism? Unsecurity?


     
  15. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    Hey bird, whats her number?
     
  16. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    I don't know. It doesn't bother me all that much. It's not as though he'd flip out, but there are times when I know he's felt threatened due to attention I get.
     
  17. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    sex mean's different things to different people. What works for you may not work for other people. There's no right or wrong here and there doesn't have to be a reason behind one's choices. I'm a monogamous person and it has nothing to do with any of the things you've listed.
     
  18. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Absolutely, I agree 100%!
     
  19. bird_migration

    bird_migration ~

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    Are you sure about that?
     
  20. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    That's why I'm ignoring your from now on!
     

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