hi About 2 months ago i had sex with the guy i have always liked but was always with another girl, has been dark hair women... When i was like 17-18 i would write him letters etc how i felt about him.... That night when we did it he was drunk i was a lil tipsy and he was saying shit like you dont want my kids when i am in my 40's and i said yah i will... He is like 28 i think... Then i would see him at the bar and we would talk, he would play led zeppelin in the juke box and stare at me when he played it... So i dont know what that meant... Then we were talking in the alley way, says something like i just dont want sex and i said well i will nuture you then he was like some thing something and i said i will miss you when you are gone, told me that was flattering and let me give him a hug... And then he was like well its not like im gonna marry you and i said why not.... Then we went inside... Then i heard he said there is this other women, so i dont know what that means, so i asked his friend where he was because i havent seen him in a long time and he said in new orleans doing the whole katrina thing or something and wont be back until august. So i said did that girl take him, and he said no , they broke up a month ago... So i dont understand why i am on the side if they broke up... And he is all like yah i didnt have sex with her, and i said you did to me and he said yah must be selfish... Fricken long hair type guy dark hair with brown eyes, says he likes the red heads but is always with dark hair women So in my mind it seems like we are together, but it hurt he didnt say good bye Also most of the time he cant look at me in the eyes with out crying, so i dont know what that means?? He is a virgo im a scorpio if that means anything... I dont know if we are compatible but sometimes i dont believe in the whole compatibility thing, i believe you fall in love with whomever you want please need some advice
Just off the top of my head, it doesn't sound like he's over her yet, and he's fishing around. I'd lay low and see what he does. If he really wants you, you'll know.
I can't say I actually understood most of what you were saying, but if one of your questions was are you or were you together then the answer is no. It doesn’t sound like you actually had any kind of relationship with him, granted you slept with him, did you take that to mean you were together? If he was with another woman then well wouldn’t that make it pretty clear he wasn’t with you? As far as him going out with dark haired girls, and saying he like's read heads I cant really see where that fit's in to the scheme of things, hair colour generally has nothing to do with whether a relationship would start or not. So basically 'I am asking' what are you asking? I’m just getting a rambling block of text. Break up the narrative and the conversational part's of your post, use whole sentences and I might be able to help a bit more Big.
You were just an easy lay. That's fine, even great, if you're both mutually looking for a good, hard fuck. But you want something that he can't give. It hurts but move on.
How're you two together in your eyes? Do you think any guy that has sex with you is your boyfriend? You were a total booty call. And, yea....most of what you said confused me.
