My hair is pretty long now and is very thick and moderately curly. if I jsut shampoo it for a week and dont brush and dont condition it gets really knappy and really frizzy and waht not. But by taht point my mom grounds me untilll I fix it. Should I jsut stay grounded untill she gets over it or just wait until I can drive and jsut forget about her? OR my other option is to let my cousin's girlfriend backcomb and what not for me when I go to Indiana in a few weeks. What do you think my best option is?
get new parents. hahah jk. umm.. my parents never cared. they think its a "cute phase". why dont your parents like them?
I say wait until u go to indiana, that way your hair wont be as bad cuz ur backcombing and seperating it and stuff right? so u will have baby dreads by the time u leave there, not just messy hair. so i think ur parents will like ur hair more. if u dont wanna wait that long, maybe someone u know can help u and backcomb ur hair for u?? i hope u are able to get dreads either way!!! good luck peace~
i shouldlnt be encouraging younguns to not go by parents rulz....... but i say fuck it,,, its hair who cares,,,,,its mine n i can do with it what i wish... it dont harm anyone and if i dont like it then i just shave the sucker n start with a clean slate,,,,, tis my artist palette if you will.... its what i always said,,, n no my parental units didnt like it,,,, n is basically what i say to my kids when they wanna do something nuts with there hair,,,, i still do crazy shit with my hair n am almost 36...
my mom just refuses to beleive that they aren't nasty, gross, dirty, filthy, etc. no matter how much I tell her, let her read, explain to her, show her etc. But I think its more of her issues of being scared of waht people will say/think
hm.. well, I personally dont get many bad comments on it or looks. I get along with people of all ages, even old people, dispite my hair.. I've gotten "it looks like hay" .. i think thats the worst. well, and my grandma said "its ok.. you still have a pretty face, honey".... i do get asked for drugs and stuff now though.. so i guess there is judgement. anyway, i'd say do the backcombing and see if she changes her mind when she sees it.
yea totaly....I was checking out the feel free farm thing man.......are you associated with taht other than being someone who jsut has a link to it. Its only about 2 hours from my hosue and I'm very interested in staying there. Tell me some more about it yo.
you don't know how many times i've been OFFERED drugs when i'm around such people i dont really mind any of the judgements as long as the person knows thats not ALL that im about
yea lil brother,,,, it is hhb n my place,,,,,, well its the worlds place,,, we just care taking it,,,,,, gotta be 18 to stay for a good bit ,,, laws ya know, but we gathering her over the fourth of july n love folks on weekends etc,,, so long as ya got a guardian or parental unit,,,,,, oh n my kid lives here too although in ny for time being,,,,,, also on here once in a while .. pita225 so come on up n visit sometime would love to have ya round a spell.... luv n lite
lol... if I were you I'd probably give 'em a nudge when you're away from home. I let my hair dread at 17, but I was already long on my own. I barely ever saw my folks, so one day it was just "oh, you've got dreadlocks. When did that happen?" (Of course, at this point I'd just barely started growing it back out from being <1 inch long and multi-coloured for several years... I don't think there's much I coulda done to shock my folks!) They'll get over it eventually. Just keep your head clean, and remind them it is where you store YOUR brain, they really have not that much to do with it now!
........she isnt lying o0o haha mom i decided ima dye my hair brown wit pink hightlights then start dreads and watch HHB bitch because i started dreads
My mom is also one of those people who didn't really agree with it. She basically said if I was to get dreads the only way she would let me is if I took my gauges out of my ears. I said no since I was very attatched to my large gauges that I've had for 5 years now, and did my dreads anyway. She likes them and keeps telling me how pretty I look. I'd say do it, go away in a couple weeks and get them backcombed so that you have cute little baby dreads when you come home, instead of her just seeing your hair a complete mess.
