Hi all, i`m 28 and married I have thought about guys since I was like 16 and would love to have sex with another guy. Thing is I have never been able to do it I dont know if its nerves or what, Theres a few guys iv arranged to 'see' but, iv always bottled it at the last minute but, I find myself thinking about being with a man especially when I masturbate which gets me really hot. Am I going nuts or what? Craig
I wouldn't say you're nuts, obviously. So do you tend to relate more to being bisexual or gay? If you chose the latter, perhaps you shouldn't be married? If you're attracted to women, and just have a strong desire to have sex with a man, I think you should just keep that a desire. Nothing wrong with fantasizing, but cheating isn't fair to your wife. Perhaps you can tell her, and you can arrange to do a threesome thing or something. I don't know, you must be honest with your wife before you go behind her back.
the same problem for me, never could arrange to meet someone, and if I do, I cannot go and afford meeting him, dont know why!
Maybe you can try the site BiLoves, which is a site for bisexuals and bicurious looking to explore their sexuality. There are also some married ppl, even some open-minded couples to enjoy their lives.
Cheat? How I hate that concept. You don't necessarily have to end a marriage to enjoy that other part of you. It is always nice to have an understanding partner who will give you that freedom. Right now you may actually be what some of my gay friends have accused me - confused. Fortunately, I found my love for guys and girls before commiting to a long-term het relationship and told my mate going in that I liked sex with guys. She never got the details but knew that I satisfied those needs that she could not provide. The only provision was to bring nothing home - no babies no diseases. Use protection if you finally play with a guy.
