I don't like to give head

I enjoy giving to my hubby as well as receiving from him. Maybe I'm odd, but I actually get turned on providing him with oral stimulation.

We don't keep score, we just do it because, well, we love one another and love making each other feel good!

 

Exactly. That's the way it ought to be.

 

I love baking cookies I just feel like it's wrong when I do it I don't know and especially when I get it

 

Well, you can bake cookies for me anytime , and we'll stay away from the oral if you don't want it-whatever makes you happy

 

you're not allergic to pecans and chocolate are you?

 

lynsey is sexy.

 

No, ma'am-I love 'em!

 

Sorry DQ but I had to say this......I bake my own cookies and chocolate is my favourite! (I did some last week actually!)

 

see you don't have a girlfriend to make them for you because you spend all your time contemplating getting head while looking at cookie recipies

 

I've never tasted a penis that was "tasteless"
not as intense as pussy
but tasteless? I guess if he's fresh from the shower and you stop before there's any precum...

 

I agree-completley

 

well not completely tasteless, i did say LIKE tasteless..

but in all honesty i'd rather eat her out then get a bj anyways

 

ahhh that's sweet

 

Head for me is non-negotiable, giving and getting.
To me someone who thinks oral is "just icky" or degrading will always have related fucked up issues and the bottom line is lousy sex. No head??? what's that leave, missionary position with the lights off?
Degrading?? good god, you must live in terror of the idea of a man giving you a proper gooey facial.
Learn to enjoy sucking cock, it's the fulfillment of your very being.

 

Its okay not tolike things. COmpletely normal.

Some guy I know cant stand to lick pussy, things theyre icky... no big deal

I fdont like recieving that much

 

it's the fulfillment of my very being...hmmmm.

as far as degrading that's because It's always been presented to me as that. either someone telling their friends how often I do it or comenting about women who don't do it and how shitty that would make them as a partner or being continually asked for it when it's obvious I don't feel like it or even after I get done puking my guts out. maybe it's just the guys I've done it to. I've only given head to 3 guys and all but the first (when I was like 15) were kinda bad experiences.

 

You know, lynsey, I know how you feel. People can give you bad impressions of the whole oral thing, and make you feel pressured. That should be an individual thing between a guy and a girl, and he should be putting your pleasure first anyway. The offer's still open if you wanna bake those cookies and I'll never mention oral, ever (even though I love it).

 

I don't like to give head either. I don't find it degrading, it's just I have a strong gag reflex and it makes me feel like I'm gonna puke.

Plus my BF hardly ever goes down on me so I don't feel bad not going down on him as often as he would like.

 

I used to think it was degrading 'till my bf finally talked me into it... The whole thing isn't as bad as i imagined it to be and seeing how much my bf loves it really turns me on. And the best part is that he insists on kissing me afterwards, that is so hot. I rather like giving him blowjobs as long as he dosen't try to get his whole dick in my mouth...

 

Whats the point in getting involved with someone who has a sexual hangup?

No one should be "pressured" that defeats the whole experience.