Over the past few months I've fallen in love with a very special girl (who unfortunately had a bf at the time) but the problem is that she is a little far away for this is be practical but that isn't really the issue at the moment. She said she loves me and I love her but recently she broke up with this bf to be with me. I bought a ticket to come see her again but now she says she isn't ready for a relationship yet and is scared it will affect her work and study and she doesnt want me to come for a while. She says she loves me but needs time but something has changed and it feels different. Does she still love me and what should I do? Thx
Its normal to need some time between relationships. In fact, it is often better to step back and reflect instead of immediately jumping into a a new relationship. If you love her and feel like waiting, then do so. If you don't want to wait, then move on and let her go. If you start a new relationship before you are ready, it is almost certainly going to fail.
Yeah I agree with the others also. Give her some time to get over her ex, some alone time. If you feel like waiting, do so, but if you don't, move on. It's up to you. She just needs time, it doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't love you.
Thx for your answers guys unfortunately I found out theres another guy in her life getting very close and changing her feelings for me. I don't think we will be meeting again now :'( any suggestions wud be appreciated but i think its probably too late.
i think shes playing with your head! besides long distance relationships dont work unless your really lucky. i think you should find someone thats willing to be with you and wants to see you... nobody needs a relationsship like that
If her attention and attraction can be that easily changed, then she probably wasn't the right one for you. Hang in there!
Don't give into "long distance relationships don't work"--- at a young age, barely any relationships work out. I find long distance to be kindof nice, believe it or not.. the time in between seeing eachother can be a little painful, but the conversations are amazing.. for me, anyway. maybe i'm just in love <3_<3.
