I just got dumped.....via email!!!

yes, and I can't help but feel really cheated and used...
Still, I can laugh at the paradox...it ended right where it all started...online!

That was my last 'internet' affair ever. Had enough of the emotionally challenged people out there.

Anyway, my heart aches a little, but I hope it will be better tomorrow

anyone else ever been e-dumped?

 

Well yeah once but I think she was just using me to get back at her X or something I don't know and I dont care lol. The only thing I like about online relationships is you can't really judge the person from their physical appearance making it pretty easy to exchange interests and conversations.

 

Email/ snail mail/ phone/ in person...... it all sux.

You will be Better. *s*

 

Yeah, I've been e-dumped.

And e-cheated on (with someone in real life) ...

 

I'm sorry. But you know, you're better than that anyway. You'll find someone who will love and care for you like you deserve!

{{{Hugs}}}

 

I agree ^^ and atleast he showed his true colors now and not when you're madly in love with the guy.. hang in there.. you deserve much better!
BIG HUGS!!

 

Aww, crud.

We mutually ended our unrealistic e-relationship. (I just mean ours was unrealistic)
Still friends with mine, it's been over a year now.
It stopped stinging after a bit. Took some time. I finally found someone warm, fuzzy, & actually near me to love. Never thought it would happen.
Does suck, but...Hang in there, & you will too!

 

kinda..... although wether an E-relationship is real or not, i dunno.... still stings a bit tho'

oh well, plenty more fish in the barrel, and alla that shit

 

ditto

admittedly it was an online-only thing, like, we didn't even talk on the phone yet. Pretty young at the time.


I think that breaking up with someone via email is ridiculously cruel, if there are other avenues available like face to face or the phone. Just cruel.

 

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Email/ snail mail is by far the worst of the lot......

...... nvm

 

you are responding to yourself andcrs2? Interesting!

 

It's supposed to induce sleep but doesn't appear to be working...

 

Yes I also agree it's extremely cruel to be dumped by email text etc, face-to-face is the only way I believe unless that isn't an option, then there's the phone, but the others? nah that's just heartless. Sorry you had to experience that, but keep your head up, you deserve better.

 

I once broke up with a girl using text messages.

 

I dumped a guy over AIM once, but he was a serious creep that I never wanted to see face-to-face again!

Oh, and once I wrote a snail-letter that was interpreted as a break-up note ... that boy STILL hasn't talked to me again, despite my efforts.

And the poet told me he "needed space" over the phone, then stopped talking to me over AIM. I can't really blame him, though ... at least not yet. (Give me time.)

But I think the *best* break-up strategy is the good old plain cold-shoulder routine. That has happened to me several times. (Four or five, to be exact.) You know, the one where you try to talk to someone and they ignore your call or message? Yeah, that one. Zero closure AND you don't get to state your side of the story.

 

I have to laugh at this, though I'm not laughing at you. I met my boyfriend over the internet (most of you know the story, so I'll spare you). About 3 months into our relationship, but I got pissed about something so stupid that I don't even remember what it was, and I broke up with him over email. He tried calling me but I didn't want to talk to him (I'm a drama queen!) cause all I was doing was crying and feeling sorry for myself. Boy I was pretty lame back then. Anyway, after about 2 hours of that I changed my mind. HA! And I didn't want to break up with him, so I went over to his house to talk to him. Course he was out with friends and came back smashed so I couldn't talk to him until the next day anyway, but we are still together over 5 years later. We used to fight and break up with each other over email all of the time. Now we just do it in person, then 5 minutes later laugh our asses off at how stupidly ridiculous we are and usually end up having sex.

Anyway, I'm sorry someone broke up with you over the internet, that isn't cool. Have you talked to this person since? Don't give up hope though.

 

Sorry

*hugs*

 

Maybe it was the only option available???

 

Can't speak for the others but
there was another option... a much Better option for ALL concerned.


Shit happens
although it's worse when ya Knew Better in the first place...