Should I stop?

Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by Jana, Jul 1, 2006.

  1. Jana

    Jana Member

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    Hi everybody!
    I have always thought that it is very important to talk about your feelings and to always say what's on your mind.But,I have learned that this isn't a good thing becouse I get hurt a lot.And now,I can't stop,becouse that is just who I am as a person.I think that if I stop doing this,I'll just stop being me.
    So,should I stop?
    ps.Sorry about the speling mistakes:)
     
  2. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    Hey Jana!

    I really think talking about things and expressing your feelings is important. You can't always keep everything inside ... Although I think you do need to be careful who you share your feelings with. Some people will only turn around and hurt you.

    I hope I helped ya! :D
     
  3. lindseybug

    lindseybug Member

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    yeah it'z good to be able to express your feelings.
    pshhh i could not hold back saying what i feel with people.
    i hope you have some good buds that are there for this reason.
    i got meli and muh lovie and muh manbud. pshh they are like muh walking journals. i tell them every detail...well ok. not eeeeeeeeeeeeeevery detail but you know what im saying.
    dont stop! express yoooooo self!
     
  4. wildflowereyes

    wildflowereyes Senior Member

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    i know this sounds like crappy advice, but maybe get a counselor? theres ones who just got out of college, so they do it very cheaply. Its not just for insane people. I went to one for awhile and the fact that there was someone I could talk to about everything I felt really made me get a lot of the negative out of my life. Its nice cause they don't know anyone you talk about, so they wont argue with you or anything.

    writing in a journal can also help. write letters to the people you're mad/sad at, and keep them in a journal (or burn them..).

    hope you find someway of figuring out what to tell people and what to keep a little more on the dl :)
     
  5. gulfwinds

    gulfwinds girasoles para los amigos

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    I agree with MA.

    The conselour will not only listen to your problems and you'll feel you have somebody there for you, but he'll also help you build up your self confidence so you don't need to be dependent on people and care about external opinons so much.
    don't expect too much of others, first thing you need to be comfortable with your own self..
     
  6. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    I'll be anyones councelor for FREE! :D

    I love to hear peoples stories!

    Call me. ;)
     
  7. gulfwinds

    gulfwinds girasoles para los amigos

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    haha my phone bill is already sky high :D
     
  8. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    What's the deal with calling Europe ... do you know?

    Would it cost alot more?

    And what about texting to Europe? :confused:
     
  9. gulfwinds

    gulfwinds girasoles para los amigos

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    i think it costs a lot josh :)
    i mean :eek: i think...

    although i texted in slovakia once and it was only 9$...
    but i dunno about texting from usa :(
     
  10. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    Damn ... move to the US Sonia!

    I wanna text you. :D
     
  11. gulfwinds

    gulfwinds girasoles para los amigos

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    i wanna text you too dear

    next summer you will NEED to text me :D
     
  12. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    Is that when your coming over here?

    You'll be on the East Coast right?
     
  13. MadEyeMoody

    MadEyeMoody Member

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    nooo let sonia stay and u moove ur ass in europe well have one bare footer more :D
     
  14. gulfwinds

    gulfwinds girasoles para los amigos

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    I'm going to ask for Penn, i think it's the best..i could go for new york but no thank you, i'd prefer working in penn

    so if they accept me i'll be there in like next july ;)
     
  15. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    WhoA! :eek:

    That means will hang out like everyday. :D

    Ahaha :D For real though ...

    If you come to Penn, I'm gonna kidnap you and take you to the beach.
     
  16. gulfwinds

    gulfwinds girasoles para los amigos

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    beach i love beaches i adore beaches beaches are my natural habitat :eek:


    great :D
    we'll also go sailing right :confused:? coz i can't go here, this year...and that sucks :(
     
  17. Micha

    Micha Now available in Verdana!

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    my mums name is jana :eek: :D
     
  18. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    I used to work with a Jana. :D
     
  19. gulfwinds

    gulfwinds girasoles para los amigos

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    i met no Jana whatsoever :D
     
  20. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    Well, you sorta met the Jana who started this thread! :D

    Just not in real life. :p
     

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