How to get her to think of me more then a friend?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by time4kr0nic, Jun 30, 2006.

  1. time4kr0nic

    time4kr0nic Member

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    There is this girl i like , and iv been chilling with her... kinda alot.
    The thing is everytime im with her , her friend is there too.
    also we hve been talking on the phone ... but her friend is always on 3 way with us

    i dunno i would feel kinda ocward to ask her to come chill alone or to talk to me alone
    but im scared if i dont do anything soon ,m she will only be like "Yea hes my bff"

    which is a no no ... knowing that girls , have this thing where hes either your friend or you like him....

    i dunno when to make the move...or HOW to make the move... im scared that she doesnt like and ill make a movie and look like an idiot i dont wanna ask her friend etc if she said anything about me becasue that would be giving it away right???
    like im a shy kid , im 15.. and im not the BEST with girls... like i can help other people out with them , but when it comes to me im just REALLYYYY shy... to make the first move..which is bad becasue most guys are the ones who make the first move , i dunno what to do.....

    im innsecure so im scared if i make a move she will be like :

    :eek: :confused:


    then ill be imbasrrist to be around her again.
    and i REALLY dont want to be one of those guys who ALWAYS bugs the girl etc.. so when ever she hears his name she will be like Uhhh not him again hes sooooo annoyyyinnngggg

    see like im stuck in a hole

    sorry guys for sharing alot of my problems i was thinking maybe someone can help me out?
    please??? im desperate. Im scared if i REALLY do not make a move she will meet a guy and ill just be upset and really depressed after.. ya know?? Like i flirt with her on MSN but like i never get the chance when i see her... she mostly acts crazy lmao with her friend. Which is kinda cool but that isnt my main goal.
     
  2. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    stop being so nice to her, you may not even have a chance but kissing up to her isnt the answer
     
  3. time4kr0nic

    time4kr0nic Member

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    So what does that mean ... lol
    like next time she msgs me or somthing not answer it right away...
    or like .....

    yea but if i dont that wont she be like
    wtf hes acting totaly differnet
    see lmao im so confussed...women are so fucking confussingggg ughhhhhh :(:(:(

    lol
    can u explane more on that "dont be as nice to her"
     
  4. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    Just ask her to hang out with you and just you. Go for a walk somewhere or something.

    then try to slip your hand in hers, or if you're sitting together put your hand on her knee. Ask her to go out to supper with you (or coffee, whatever), if she says yes say "it's a date!" or something like that
     
  5. tyc

    tyc Member

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    u guys are forgetting the most important part.. her response... lol pray u dont get rejected
     
  6. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    Slip a finger into her bum.

    Or just straight up kiss her, you fucking pussy.
     
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