A few years ago I bought a relationship, but now there are massive holes in it and it is slowly sinking. I want advise from you guys: Shall I move to shallower waters or just trade in my yacht for a new one?
Pretend your partner just broke up with you....how do you feel? Sad, angry, happy, relieved that you didn't have to be the one? Let those feelings be the beginnings of your introspection of your relationship.
^^^ I second. Although, bird, you should also keep in mind sometimes new ones can be faulty, too. Make sure you buy one from a legit distributor.
how would you read the different feelings? what would sad, angry, happy and relieveed that you don't have to be the one mead to your next step? Please explain... sorry for hijack this thread...
Imagine your partner broke up with you. What is your feeling? Sad--maybe you don't want to lose that person Happy--you didn't really want to be in that relationship Angry--maybe you wanted to be the one to end it Relieved--guilt over being in a relationship you knew wasn't right but you didn't want to hurt the other person