I don't like to give head

no trust me honey I take care of my own

 

right...

thats it for sure...

theres a lot more to a relationship than getting head

 

Sure, but no matter how good of a fuck you are some times a man wants his cock sucked. There's no way around that other than 10 minuets of sucking then smiling and taking a facial. If you won't someone else will.

 

oh my god I think you are the man who I broke off an engagement to because of this very reason...call him and see how his views on getting head worked out for him I would give you his number but I no longer have it and he was in a car accident yesterday and guess who was taking care of him-his mother, guess who hasn't called him and never will again-me. Sounds like his preference for getting constant head really paid off for him...

 

thank you finally a mature voice

 

takes one to know one

 

I'm sure you're a gem...but I am very happy but thanks for your advice

btw-dermologica does my facials, they have wonderful facial technicians

 

yep....

 

Okay, so giving head isn't for lynsey. What's the big deal?

Personally, I love oral, both giving and receiving. But what's right for me isn't necessarily right for her.

Does it make her bad? No.
Does it render her incapable of having a serious, meaningful relationship with someone? No.

It just means that that's not her thing. *shrug*

 

Good to see at least one person recognized the significance of the post...

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Lack of/ minimal oral sex isn't that big a deal if
Truth/ Honesty/ Openess are not violated.

That doesn't appear to be the case in this thread.

 

Like?

 

without oral sex there is really nothing else to talk about.... I mean I feel that the person can't really be into you if they are not prepared to do that ..... its a part of foreplay and everything else .....(this is me talking, there was a thread about it so you should expect some feedback)

If the person is soooo dirty, then why are you having sex with them in the first place?

 

Thats a good point. I know, personally, I consider oral sex to be much more personal than intercourse, I mean, you've got your mouth on their privates. That says a lot.

 

exactly it's very intimate

 

With my ex-husband, I didn't enjoy giving him oral sex. He didn't taste as good and his body wasn't as nice, or something like that. With my new boyfriend, I could go down on him 24/7. I gave him head for 2 hours the first night we were together (I swear that isn't an exaggeration -- I glanced at the clock when we started and when I finally stopped, I glanced at it again. It was roughly 2 hours later), because he tasted so good and I loved the way he smelled and felt in my mouth. He knows, though, that he has to be fresh out of the shower for me to go down on him, but he loves it when I do.

He gives great oral, too. I had never cum from oral before him. We have the most amazing sex life.

 

Guess I'm in another World.

We're not discussing streetwalkers
so shouldn't sex be intimate/ personal?
Aren't those givens?

This must not be a suitable thread/ group of Folks
for in depth discussions of the
emotional/ mental/ psychological aspects of oral sex...

 

well good luck with being single then i guess

 

yw.
Thx for your insight n concern mr(?) mystery 'pert... *L*

 

I have to agree. If a girl doesn't like getting head, she's not the girl for me. It's not a matter of her not having other great things to offer, but it's simply a deal-breaker to me. Oral sex is way better than just regular sex, *for me*, and as such, I would want a girl who really enjoyed it. Even if she did it but hated it, I'm a respectful guy, I wouldn't want a girl doing something she hated, that just isn't cool. I want her to enjoy it, at least to some degree.

I don't know any other guys who think head isn't important, and my friends are college grads in graduate schools, classy guys, not just idiot jocks wanting their dicks sucked or something. But even they consider it very important to have a girl who isn't a prude. I'm sorry but if you hate giving head or think it's really gross, that does make you prude. Doesn't make you a bad person, but sure not someone I'd be serious with.

I don't like it when girls act like, "Well fine, if you expect head then screw you, I'm dumping you" -- ok fine, nothing lost as I'd dump you first. I already dated enough girls who hated giving head. It was BORING and lame, it will never happen again. I won't date girls like that.

 

I am 28 years old and always hated the idea and thought of giving head. I have been have received it for over 10 years now and I really don't like that. I don't hat receiving but it does nothing for me. Its like licking my arm or something. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and I just tried giving head for the first time in my life this year. I really hate it. Before he used to say don't knock it until you try it. Now that I have tried it I want to regurgitate while doing it. He has never really stressed me about it until now. He has mentioned it about 60 times in the passed week. I love him to death, we have a beautiful 3 year old son, I don't want to be with anyone else but him, but I just cannot get myself to like giving head.

I am not a prude at all. I love spontaneous sex. We have done it in a cab, on top of the Empire State Building, on the hood of the car, in a restaurant, on the train, in an elevator, on an airplane, greyhound bus, on the side of the highway, in a crowded park............... I love getting screwed and I am allot of fun to be around. He loves me to death also. We are still in love and have sex everyday.

Is there a way to make yourself like it or to learn to like it. I get sick every time I even try to lick the head.


Like Lynsey said are there any women who can live advice on this subject or relate?