My man and I have been together for a bit, and I'm afraid that he may think things may be beginning to get repetitive. I need some ideas for new ways to express my feelings to him, and new things we can do together. I just want to keep this relationship alive and kicking. Anyone have any creative ideas? "I love you" doesn't seem to be enough... I need a better way to express it. And some activites/etc would be useful, too. (If it helps to know, we are sexually active, so suggestions of a sexual nature will also be helpful)
People have no idea how to help you with no specifics. Are you vanilla? Go rent some videos, go sex-toy shopping, make out in semi-public areas, throw caution to the wind, write cheesy notes to each other and let the other find them spontaneously, get creative with food, use a video camera, cook naked. And so on and so forth.
the term "i love you" should be enough.... if its to "repetivite and boring" for him, then i would say good riddence...
How old are you sweetness? If you're 13, I would say move on and meet another guy. If your relationship of boreing at 13, you need someone better for you. If you're older I can make a few suggestions. All the stuff Hannah said is very bien! Any little sexual inuendo(sp) will work, however, you have to spice it up or THAT will get boreing. Also, having a romantic dinner at home is always nice. Cook something new together and don't bother cleaning the kitchen afterwards. Slip out of the house and meander into the woods or go someplace new. I can't say that enough NEW NEW NEW NEW NEW! Take up and new class together or start a hobby that you both can enjoy. Also, another sexual thing you can do is buy a sexy book and take turns reading chapters of steamy hot explicit porn to eachother. Plus, i also say, don't worry TOO much about it. Relationships go though phases. Even being married you will experience differnet emotions together. So, just give it some time and no matter what, don't quit saying "I love you!" Even if it becomes habitual. It still shows that you care. So, good luck sweetie. Blessed Be
Does he think things are beginning to get repetitive? Are you headed for a long term relationship together? Do you both think that new ways of showing love are better than your current ways? Do you think that this sence of newness is possible or desirable in a long term relationship? Talking with him about these kinds of questions may be a way to show him that you love him. Sexual suggestion: Get a timer. For two minutes, you do only what he tells you to. For the next two minutes, he does only what you tell him to do. Repeat.... It gives you a nice safe way to explore each others kinky side.
