people piss me off...HELP its fustrating

guyz, i just wanna let u kno, it gets fuckin annoying lookin for a relationship, or just a girl to kick it with u kno, it gets really fustrating at times, people piss me off, at times i feel like a dont have a true freind ( and i do have a lot of SO CALLED FREINDS) but i think twice if my BEST freind can even b considered a freind. idk what to say i want a girlfreind, i feel like im an outkast b/c i never find anything to do and i never have plans, accept a few times, now a few girls have been hittin me up and tryin to hang, and i told my best freind (cuz he knows the girls too) that shes tryying to hang with me and he said "naaa, i think they like me" (as if he was tryin to say back the fuck up, but he doesnt really like her) hes fukin pissin me off, and its not like hes not cool. he IS, hes da man, but hes a cocky selfish annoying peice of shit at times. anywayz please just give me advice or tell me what u think

thanks...

 

Lots of people are "fuckin annoyin" and "stupid" I mean you just got to turn on the news to find that out. But it seems that the female generation is honestly growing to be more self centred, more self conceiuse (I can't spell worth a shit sorry.), and just down right mean, and "slutty". Its cause of media that most girl at least that I know are this way and I do blame the media for taking advantage of insucrities. And thats why I think its hard to find girls to just "kick it". But that a whole nother bag of issuse.

Im not to sure why your having a hard time finding a girl friend cause I don't know you or your personality. But as I say to anyone who talks about stuff like this I say.... Good Things come to those who wait. And honestly I truely believe that!

As for your friend sounds as if he is a bit jelouse of this women that like you and wants them for him self. No offence to your friend but I can;t stand a cocky guy...I'd like to kick them in their balls. (when they start bragging about them slefs and you cant get a word in edge wise. Or even girls who are like that to)

But I dunno if this is advice you are looking for....Women and men think completly different when it comes to stuff like this.

Good luck in the lady department and I hope you feel better about people in general. But remember not all of the world is "stupid" or bad there are a few good souls out there ...good things come to those who wait.

 

Sounds like your friend is jealous and wants the attention or the girls themselves. Either way, just ignore it and hopefully he'll get over this behaviour, and if he doesn't, I'd say ove on and find new friends. You don't need the drama.

I also think that a lot of girls are either to full-on ('slutty', as BrandNewSoul put it, which is quite apt), or cautious of a guy's intentions, believing that a guy can't just want to be their friend and must want something more from them (a relationship, in other words), so they are shy and reserved. I say if these girls want to hang out with you, go right ahead and hang out with them, you're friend will have to deal with it. Don't rub it in his face though, (talk about it all the time, or brag - not syaing you do that, but just warning you in any case - so you're sensative to his feelings), but if he continues to carry on, like I said earlier, move on.

Good luck and hope that helps you

 

thanks now that i look back , i can definitly say that, the kid is a cocky peice of shit, but at other times he IS a freind, a good freind u kno.
but it gets on my nerves sooo much, when he does that i feel like fuckin idk what! he said it twice he was like "NAA IM PRITTY SURE SHE LIKES ME.." lol wtf! all i said is i might b chillin with her, and he also asked me "oh foreal her and her boy broke up, i might hit it, i might hit it!" fuckin gay BAHHH!!! n e ways if u really think about it nobody has a lot of TRUE freinds if not ANY. at least i dont and i have a lot of "so called freinds" it pissed me off....

i guess i just got to relax though idk wat to do.

 

you're such a dork it hurts.

 

ur da dork, im tryin to see what people think and learn from differnt experiances, ur tryin to feel good about urself behind a fuckin keyboard , wow ur cool no da fuckin forum loves u haha, do u feel better now?! instead of relating to the thread or ignoring it ur just being a dousch bag.

 

Well, keep him around for everything else except when you are with girls. When its time to hang out with girls, just disappear, its not like he needs to be around all the time. Seperate the two..girls/best friend.

As for girls..just be natural, getting a girlfriend happens when you least expect it. treat a girl you dig like you would any friend, girl or guy.

 

LOL LOL LOL Spoken like a True Pirate!

 

You sound so fucking desperate it's ridiculous.

ONe thing you have to learn in life...you never find anything when you're looking for it.

If you don't get it yet...you don't need a girlfriend.