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Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by sanchos, Jul 4, 2006.

  1. sanchos

    sanchos Member

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    hello boys,

    i had a crush on a female i nicknamed breast friend, for reasons i will not go into

    i never had any courage to ask her out, and eventually i turned gay

    i am of black origin and find it hard to approach white boys, no matter how much i want to

    i have some indian friends who suggested many different methods to increase my self esteem, some wild methods (including voodoo)

    do you guys have any tips or advice?

    love Patrick Joseph O'Brien

    my msn is sanchos911@hotmail.com for anyone who wants to add me
     
  2. Gay77

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    hi sanchos
     
  3. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    i don't understand why you're afraid to approach caucasian guys...

    you shouldn't be.

    I can't really relate, but a guys race means nothing to me. It's all the same.
     
  4. The_Warden

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    hey there mateyo,
    Dont let confidence keep ya back most men want ya if ya got a sense of humour kind attitude and able to create a smile so when it comes to sorting out the words to ask a white man out just compliment at first and have a laugh but prepare for backlash should something not be right but negative feelings do show through vibes so be confidence!!
    Warden
     
  5. SageDreamer

    SageDreamer Senior Member

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    I'm not sure that lacking the courage to ask a female friend out made you gay. If you're gay, you're gay no matter how brave you are or aren't.

    You say that you have trouble approaching white boys. Do you feel the same way about approaching boys who are other colors? Or are you just not interested in approaching nonwhite boys?

    There are plenty of white boys who will happily go out with someone of a different race or color. Maybe you are around the wrong people. I don't think voodoo would help much, but after you have met more people, you'll feel better.
     
  6. sanchos

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    thanks for your advice

    i would really appreciate a friend right now :(

    anyone who is willing to embrace me please add me to msn : sanchos911@hotmail.com
     
  7. sanchos

    sanchos Member

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    anyone? :)
     
  8. sanchos

    sanchos Member

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    thanks for adding me john, we're both getting well aquinted now :D
     
  9. virgo_boy

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    Most nonexperienced people are a little afraid to approach others or be apporached.
     
  10. sanchos

    sanchos Member

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    yeah thats my problem, i just need some friends to boost my confidence
     
  11. sanchos

    sanchos Member

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    not many people added me :(

    is anyone looking for a friend?
     
  12. sanchos

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  13. sanchos

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    doesnt anyone want to be my friend?
     
  14. pianoperson60

    pianoperson60 Senior Member

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    Yeah, it takes time. I'm not sure if your fear of approaching white guys is just that, or if you are afraid of approaching other guys in general.
    But you shouldnt feel afraid of getting with a white guy, and I guess you know that because you're now asking us for advice. I guess it takes courage. You just haveta push yourself to ask a guy out for hte first time. It'll be nerve-wracking, but then next time, it'll be a bit easier. And hten you'll get used to it and it won't be so bad. I tend not to think of guys as what race they are, and you should try and see past that.
    good luck
    Cheers and love,
    Dylan
     
  15. sanchos

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    thanks dylan, do you use msn?

    if so, add me please
     
  16. sanchos

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    i tried to approach another guy.... same problem....
     
  17. Echelon

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    Sanchos, we share the same last name of O'Brien! Strange. And I added you to my MSN, but I haven't seen you on.
     

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