hello

hello boys,

i had a crush on a female i nicknamed breast friend, for reasons i will not go into

i never had any courage to ask her out, and eventually i turned gay

i am of black origin and find it hard to approach white boys, no matter how much i want to

i have some indian friends who suggested many different methods to increase my self esteem, some wild methods (including voodoo)

do you guys have any tips or advice?

love Patrick Joseph O'Brien

my msn is sanchos911@hotmail.com for anyone who wants to add me

 

hi sanchos

 

i don't understand why you're afraid to approach caucasian guys...

you shouldn't be.

I can't really relate, but a guys race means nothing to me. It's all the same.

 

hey there mateyo,
Dont let confidence keep ya back most men want ya if ya got a sense of humour kind attitude and able to create a smile so when it comes to sorting out the words to ask a white man out just compliment at first and have a laugh but prepare for backlash should something not be right but negative feelings do show through vibes so be confidence!!
Warden

 

I'm not sure that lacking the courage to ask a female friend out made you gay. If you're gay, you're gay no matter how brave you are or aren't.

You say that you have trouble approaching white boys. Do you feel the same way about approaching boys who are other colors? Or are you just not interested in approaching nonwhite boys?

There are plenty of white boys who will happily go out with someone of a different race or color. Maybe you are around the wrong people. I don't think voodoo would help much, but after you have met more people, you'll feel better.

 

thanks for your advice

i would really appreciate a friend right now

anyone who is willing to embrace me please add me to msn : sanchos911@hotmail.com

 

anyone?

 

thanks for adding me john, we're both getting well aquinted now

 

Most nonexperienced people are a little afraid to approach others or be apporached.

 

yeah thats my problem, i just need some friends to boost my confidence

 

not many people added me

is anyone looking for a friend?

 

bump

 

doesnt anyone want to be my friend?

 

Yeah, it takes time. I'm not sure if your fear of approaching white guys is just that, or if you are afraid of approaching other guys in general.
But you shouldnt feel afraid of getting with a white guy, and I guess you know that because you're now asking us for advice. I guess it takes courage. You just haveta push yourself to ask a guy out for hte first time. It'll be nerve-wracking, but then next time, it'll be a bit easier. And hten you'll get used to it and it won't be so bad. I tend not to think of guys as what race they are, and you should try and see past that.
good luck
Cheers and love,
Dylan

 

thanks dylan, do you use msn?

if so, add me please

 

i tried to approach another guy.... same problem....

 

Sanchos, we share the same last name of O'Brien! Strange. And I added you to my MSN, but I haven't seen you on.