I'm extremely self conscious of my self and get so nervous when i'm around girls that i can't even walk, or talk right, and that makes me feel like after that there is no way that i could fuck them. I can't think of the right things to say. I feel like i don't know how to make a move. And of course i'm a virgin, but i don't wont to be at all! It gets so bad that when i try to talk to a girl i just say fuck it and want to get the hell away so i can fell better, But When i do get away that just tairs just as big a hole in my head. Anyone know how i can stop being like this i would more then appreciate it.
talk to girls that you have no interest in. its alot easier to talk to someone that you dont see as a potential hook up. once you are comfortable talking to female strangers, move on to girls that you do find attractive. alternative suggestion-drink alcohol
Why don't you forget the 'fucking' part until you learn the 'how dee doo' part? (That's why the gods gave us hands that jerk in rythm with the universal song of Master Bates, as I'm sure you have learned by 17). Mike and kaygin have sound advice above. I have found also, that honesty works the best. When a minimal relationship has been formed you say,"ya know, I'm scared to death of relationships with girls." or something like that. Try saying out loud the words you used to us (minus the 'fucking' part.) Then let the woman take over. It's true - and her natural sympathy, etc will drive the relation forward. If not her, the next one. Keep going 'til you're not embarrassed to say it anymore. Then start talking about your fumbling thoughts about life in general and (maybe) sex in particular. Let the women help you; I guarentee most of them will! Keep at it,nightmare.
dont try to aproach a girl if your still feeling this way......you wont recover for years lol ......start small man.....make freinds with girls you can tell have the same problem.....flirt with em.....yatta yatta.....you dont have to go looking for em either.... chancer are one will ask to borrow a pencil or somethn like that.....and if your not creative enough to think of somethn to say to someone of the oposite sex....when you go out of town or somethn.....practice on girls that youl NEVER EVER agin see in your life.....meh yea some will probly luagh at u but who fucking cares.....thats the last time youl ever see em.....(u can probly get a kick out of twitching your eye somewere in the conversation)......works like a charm for me....i started doing that when i was in the 7th grade.....and now the girls i aproach give me ther numbers...... and beleive me......i dont ask.......
