Aura..Split from other thread. Seeking help.

Ok, I know I can come on strong..
Hearing someone's emotional distress like that makes me very protective.
My friend (female, not a member here) she sees these colors coming off of people even through the telephone.
In one particularly horrible experience she described trying to set a close friends ashes free and having them blow back in her face and stick to her, & the colors, the actual real stark horror of the situation impressed upon me deeply.
Now, a young man she knows has shot himself in the head. She's been on meds to attempt suppression of the colors. She's blaming herself for his death, for not be able to clearly physically SEE his emotional distress.

She's supposed to call later today, & I'm very worried about her.

Can anyone give credible advice on living with them better, & how to possible control this phenomena better?
It is absolutely overwhelming to her..Horrific. She means that, or there is no way she would've sought help in the first place..

I'd like to piece together useful information and relay the best of it back to her, please help.

 

nobody here can help your friend. You can't help her either. She has to help herself, and it will probably only happen with the assistance of a really good therapist, or maybe a team of therapists and psychiatrists.

 

Lovely, so all those FOR REAL people who see auras never had to learn to control it? At all?
Send her to someone who will tell her she's crazy? Why?
She already has signed up for that study I posted anyways. PPL not commonly familiar with that phenomena are most likely going to be less than helpful.
Now she wants off meds so she can see others distress. I give up.

 

I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. What your friend is experiencing seems nothing like what I mean when I say I see auras. It sounds more like some sort of schizophrenia to me, which is treatable. Blaming herself for someone else's suicide is definitely not a sign of her being mentally stable.

 

My skin isn't that thin.

No, what this sounds like to me would be science finally recognizing the ghosthunters, & the ghosthunters ignoring the science they begged for recognition from for so long.

No, she doesn't have schizophrenia, she has lupus.

WTF are you talking about? People blame themselves all the time for others peoples deaths.

 

What isn't mentally stable is people needing to be 'special' so badly that they'll shun a fellow humans suffering.
That is sickening.

 

Who put her on the meds?

 

dead bodies do not have auras, neither do their ashes. If she saw some sort of "light" in those ashes, it was not at all what I see that I call an "aura"......... I am truly sorry your friend is having such a difficult time right now, there was a point as a teenager where I thought I was completely insane, and I was easily able to shut out the sense of seeing auras and hearing ghosts and such. Problem was that turning it off made things much worse for me instead of better, kinda like when you ignore that inner voice that warns you not to do certain things. I did a lot of research into different psychological diagnoses that I might encounter were I to see a psychiatrist about it. The closest that came to what I experience is a form of schizophrenia, but it's not the same. What you are describing sounds to me like it might be. I'm no head shrinker, and have very little faith in them, as a matter of fact. But your friend needs help. If it's this big of a problem, she has to go somewhere for that help. Posting about her innermost demons on internet message forum isn't going to help her (does she know you did this?). I'm really really sorry. You asked me specifically to answer this thread. I never meant to offend in any way.

 

Her lupus symptoms did not start 'till later years the colors, auras way before then. As a small child she remembers them.
Did any of you "open minds" here think that perhaps there is only a small difference here? That perhaps your versions of auras are a lessor form of her affliction, the same affliction?
Most likely not.
She has already sought help medical records a mile long. Makes her more credible than most in my book.
She thought she was nuts too. The doctors don't, & neither do I. She's one of the nicest people I know.
We are talking about a 23 yr old man who blew his head off in front of his friends, & family unexpectedly. She is in the beginning stages of grief. Very normal to blame yourself, & is starting to move through that part of it slowly already.

I've got a full plate, & a trip out of town coming up.
I've had enough, I would like the thread I started deleted and my other posts in this fora deleted as well if that is possible. Please, & thanks.

 

Let all things teach us the beauty of our being.

When ever a person does not ask directily for help, they are not asking. Thus every thing you get is through the eyes of another person. Right, or wrong are judgements, and will only get in the way of a learning experience.

Each individual is responsable for their own choices, and perception. Each one is in charge of the emotional attachment they put on, or cling to. Seeing auras, and colors does not make you emotionally distraught.

Everyone is psychic is some way with individual gifts with both strengths, and weakness. Moving beyond the WOW factor we all are special with hopes, dreams, and lives we are in. Taking accountability, and responsability shows us we can save NO ONE. Each must save, and heal themselves. To justify your own actions because someone else reacted, or choose differently to respond then you wanted, shows a limited view of the teacher before you.

When we learn these places of respect, and find graditude in the lessons, and experiences we are in, we will not understand just how much we all are connected, and here to grow beyond what we think we know, and understand.

all we can count on is change. Our personal reaction to change does make a difference, as does our emotional attachments to who, and what we are, and are capable of.

Having seen auras all my life,I do understand this is only a big deal if you make it a big deal. So for the moment THANK YOU all for helping us to learn And see beyond ourselves, and get a glimpse of just how amazing we all are. For this reason I am not at this point deleting this thread. Just suggesting that in the future if the individual does not ask, the individual does not want to know, and to answer you are invading THEIR personal space. Put yourself in their shoes. Respect is a ripple, emotional attachment is a choice.