i don't see what the big deal is. i was young and geekish and felt bad about my lack of experience. this girl, a friend, lingered at my place after a party and it just sort of happened. there was no illusion of emotion or a budding relationship, it was just for fun, and she thought i was old enough to loose my virginity (i guess, or she was lusty, who knows.) so why kiss her? 6 months later i had my first kiss with my girlfriend. simple as that. am i really THAT slutty?
Maybe you're just not into kissing? That's how my bf and I get started, is by making out heavily. I know what he wants when he starts deepening the kisses. It's become our "signal".
yea, seriously. i thought hippies were for free love. as long s both parties know what the deal is, i think the term "slutty" is uncalled for.
no, she is really slutty. its just not quite the panic situation everyone seems to be worrying about.
i was talking about the chick he fucked... unless you mean he fucked a man. in which case i'm leaving this thread.
a guy isn't slutty, it's either being a player, or nothing at all since guys aren't really slutty, because we aren't really expected to restrain ourselves unless we are in a relationship
Very progressive viewpoint you got there . So, a guy does it he's a player, a girl does it she's a slut?? Sheesh