My lady and i are leaving to two seperate colleges, and plan on staying together. Shes leaving in 3 weeks, and every other time we have intercourse, she starts to cry, and talk about how many days are left...and how were going to deal with it...and etc I mean i understand and all, but it completely ruins the mood. I lose the errection, and its just un enjoyable. Keep in mind i completely sympathize for it, but its just such a horrible feeling when your lady starts crying during intercourse. What should i do?
Thats a sara silverman song. *Do you ever have to take drugs so you can have sex without crying* its about porn stars though... Sorry man
It's obvious the two of you need to figure out a solution to the angst that she's feeling...therefore, like HZ says: address the issue... OUTSIDE OF THE BEDROOM
well it's pretty obvious isn't it? You need to talk to her about it and comfort her, and stop being bummed that you miss out on some sex, that's bullshit... Her feeling good is so much more important than your sexual needs, that is, if you really love her...
are you two going to try and work out a long distance relationship? if not, fuck her while you can. just ignore the cries like guys ignore everything else their woman complains about ahaha i probably should never have found this forum