Being the man that I am, I have a hard time believeing that. Have you ever tried to show him that besides being the angel godess that he's in love with, that you're also a flesh and blood woman? If not, I could tell you how to show him that, but I don't know if you would want me to do it in open forum.
i've urged, i've instigated. it's not that dave doesn't like to get nasty or kinky, it's that he can't be rough. it goes against his nature.
O.K. so what happens then? I mean I don't know what you want him to do to you so I'm only guessing, but, what happens when you repeatedly and violently thrust your hips into his pelvis while shouting f me harder?...and pull my hair... spank me... or whatever? You're telling me he doesn't get it?
hehe...i had one of those rough nites last nite...hehe....went thru 2 vicodin, 4 ciggarette breaks, 3bottles of beer, and damn near 3 hours later we was laying in a puddle of sweat shaking like school girls, hehe....now im stuck at work and am about to pass out i'm so damn tired...but im not sore at all, just having a hard time keeping my eyes open......oh well, its all good...huh....
he giggles. the harder part we can do. it's the throwing me rudely over the back of the couch and shoving and ordering me about that he doesn't get.
I am too at this point. If you want him to be rude, and he doesn't know how, then I guess you have to teach him. Give him the treatment that you want. Grab his package and tell him "gimme that dick it's mine" slurp all over it until it's dripping from your chin, then give him a big kiss. That's pretty rude. Good luck. That's all I can think of for today.
lol. that's great, but i do that already. i'm considering really pissing him off so that we can have fight sex.
rofl, i'll admit, willy, i checked out the thread because i remember you saying a while back that you weren't having much luck with the ladies, and then when i saw that you were the last poster, i thought maybe things turned around for you. antithesis, i've been gone for a while...i guess things went well on the date a couple of weeks ago? lol mynameiskc, i guess i'm a dork like your husband. kinky s&m stuff is funny and kinda embarrassing to me. i giggle too.
It's a very very recent thing. I've only been seeing him for a week (I gave it up quick, I know ). But yeah, I'm no longer the forum virgin. See what you missed? I think that this should show you that you should come around here more often!
Yep, it did Although according to him, we are not a couple. I find that stuff embarassing too and it doesn't appeal to me in the slightest. Unlike what KC thinks, I am not going to be a dominate type or a submissive type. Although if I was anything, I would be submissive. But I'm all for equality. That's just how it is.
I guess i am more of a roleplay guy than into bondage...once someone wanted me to slap them hard during sex and I found that to be difficult, not to say that i don't like to do it rough.....just not into actually striking someone.