I'm new to the boards and all, so I don't know who to ask advice from, so i'll just poste. -- Well, I am the type of guy, 17, who has the looks and I guess features of a guy who can get whoever he wants... so i've been told lol. I've been single for about 4 years now, yeah strange I know, I just seem to get REAL shy sometimes and then some times I get confident. There is this girl at my local super market, Rowes, alright so this girl is the girl I've been lookin' for. I don't know what it is about her, but I seriously like her. I don't want to come on as a Geeky/Nerdy kid who can't seem to get his share, but I feel that the way i'm typing this, seems that way lol. ANYWAY, so I go in to help my ma with groceries(mispelled), cause ima helpful person, anyway I meet her at the checkout lane and all, and I can tell she may like me, cause she smiling and all at me, so then my ma, of all people, asks if there is a job opening. She says she doesn't know, etc. but then says "hold on, i'll go get you an application.". You see, we never exactly asked for an application, we just asked if there is a job opening... I guess you'd have to be there to understand, but I could tell she wanted me to work there. She told me to come back on a Tuesday, her and the manager would be there. Tuesday. No manager, but she is there. I give the application to someone else, but before all of that, she gets all excited and waving to see me... Yeah, it's one of those moments i'm proud to be alive. Question is, how can I win this girls heart? Over certain events recently, i've had a downfall in confidence in myself, and I just seem to get nervouse when I see her, as though I don't want to mess things up, you know. I expect to hear/see, "Be yourself", but it's seriously gotten to the point where I don't even know how to do that. ~Thanks in advance
first off the next time you go see her dont bring your mom. and mabye she has a boy friend...who knows. I would tell her my name and mabye ask her if she wants to go 2 a party or sumthing, you might even exchange numbers. That kind of stupid shit works for me, good luck
Since then, I've gone in there, w/o my ma, and I made her laugh alot lol. Hell, there is like no parties that I know about (my friend gives me the heads up, cause I live FAR away from alot of my friends), so I doubt that will work. -Thanks
Just ask her to go out and do something. Say: "Have you seen (insert movie title here), yet? I heard it was really great!" And if she says she hasn't...it's a perfect lead-in to ask her to a movie..."OH and maybe we can get some food beforehand, too!" See? Perfection.
good idea. lol I feel like a total loser by posting all of this and all, but seriously I never even asked a gurl out... Maby 1... but, I always had people say "eh, such and such, they want to date you! They wanna know if you want to go out with them." that type of deal.
I think I did that when I was 10.... Anyway, just pretend you're having a conversation with a friend of yours and smile a lot...that's all...it's not hard
Well, believe it or not, in my lame school it still happens, i'm not the only person. And you know sumthin' after talkin with this gurl it gets easier and shit. G2G
SOunds like by the way she is acting she really likes you...goto the grociery store the next time she works....go throug her line..buy like a candy bar or something nothing serous. Then get her number..ask when she gets off...give her a call later that night and do your thing. not that it matters but i used to work at safeway and my gf works there currently.
Hey bro, I don't know what it is, but those words gave me some major confidence. Thanks. I'll just drive to the place, go by a drink or whatever and talk, which will lead to gettin her #, lol.
... So far every time I go in, she isn't in. Well, I just hope I play my cards right with this girl, cause she already seems to mean alot to me.
"Seems to mean a lot to you"? Do you want her or not? I still don't get it. You're not afraid of losing her. You're afraid of looking like a fool. Just do it and ask for her number.
Funny. As soon as I don't even give a f*** about what she thinks, and before I go in there, I lose interest. I dunno, she is a "wigger-girl", but that's cool... I just think they're more of gold diggers then they are in too love and it's benefits. There is a girl, I actually go too school with, that I will make a move with. lol, I already know I can date her and such just by certain hints. Thanks though, anyway... I was more of a fool just for not making a fool earlier this summer... THAT ios what my problem was.
It doesn't surprise me you've been single for 4 years thinking that. Well, you HAVE been single for 4 years....believe me, it isn't the post that makes it seem that way. A girl smiling at you doesn't mean she likes you....and getting you an application is only to benefit her....more people working=less hours she'll have to slave away. You could tell she wanted you to work there? How....did she SAY that? I had a girl get an application for me when I just asked if there were any job openings....does that mean she's a big lesbian that so desperately wanted me she'd give me a job app just to be closer to me? No.... Maybe the manager had somewhere else to be. If a girl waving at you makes you proud to be alive, you must have a DULL life. Bend her over the table in the breakroom.
Let me restate, "I have not had 'serious' relationships in 4 years". I've had g/f's that haven't worked out, but nothing that I would consider serious, mostly because I move all the time, wheather it be too a new state, city, town, school, etc. - I may have said that I can get whatever I want, but what I don't let the females know something like that. Common Sence. - I am terribal at telling stories online, obviously. You would have honestly had too been there to understand what I am talking about when I say that I know she liked me. That is something, i'm sure, both sexes can tell... - All in all, i'm glad I didn't date her, because for one, she goes too some other school far from where I go, and two, I wouldn't have the oppurtunity too date a girl in my school. - I am far from geeky and shit, and people especially know this, because of how I am. Being single, away from serious relationships, doesn't make you seem geeky, in my eyes. Then again, how would I know. ~ Thanks for the poste
