Does he like me or not?

Well im in a situation where i really do like this guy but im not sure if he feels the same way about me.
Well this guy has a girlfriend and anyways i asked him out to my formal and he said yes, i sometimes also have conversations with him when he asks me questions like if i've ever had a boyfriend before, if im scared of the physical side in a relationship, if i mind the touching and kissing in a relationship, etc. He also once asked me "would you get with me" and i didnt say anything back till i then realized he told me that he was only mucking around.
Also i have known this guy for a few years now and like every time i would see him a few years ago he would sometimes just wave hello or smile and walk away but now whenever he sees me he stops to have a conversation with me, kisses me on the cheek, etc.

Please help me and give your honest opinions. Do you think that this guy i like likes me or doesnt like me and he doesnt know that i like him.

Thanks for reading this and thanks for your help

 

I think he likes you at least as a friend. Anything more than that, it's hard to say. If he has a girlfriend and IF he is ALSO trying to get inside your pants, then that could, or could not, mean a big trouble. I think it's hard to say at this point.

One thing I can say is that he DOES like you a lot....as a FRIEND at least. If you're pursuing this, try to take things slowly. He has a girlfriend, so you have to take that in to consideration as well. If he's interested in you and simply going to cheat on her, tell him to bring a proper closure with her before you two start a relationship.

The thing is.... There's always a risk of his doing the same thing to YOU, once he starts going out with you and finds other girls to be attractive. Then those girls would become you right now, if that makes sense to you.

All in all, be patient, and take your time in finding out what he's after.

Good luck!

 

Sex him and ditch him. If you really like him, add him to the harem.

 

Thanks for your help

 

Well he definitely likes you as a friend, that much is certain. As for anything more, it's hard to say, he could but then again, he may not, but either way, if he's got a girlfriend, I'd leave him alone. Sounds like more trouble than it's worth, imo. If he is interested i in you and plans to pursue something with you, be sure you make sure he's ended his relationship with her before you two start giong out.

Hope that helps ya and good luck e's wort

 

you know what i'm in that same situation! only i like a girl but i'm not sure if she likes me. it's hell isn't it?

 

Thanks everyone for your help

hippy_dude26 - It is hell, its just so hard to like someone and not being able to know if they feel the same way!

 

Could people please give me more opinions on what they think.
Just because i like to hear a little bit from lots of people just to know if they think the same or different.

Please post some more coments.
Thanks

 

hmmm he has a gf... are you really ready to put up for a fight to get him to leave his gf?? How is his relationship is his gf??

I am thinking... what he does with you could be just him playing with you... playing with your feelings... I think you should ask him if he would leave his gf first...

 

Yeah, I kind of have to agree with the above. A more general question is why are you even thinking about someone who is seeing someone? I understand he is kind of flirting with you and every thing, but I would totally call him on it. Next time he brings up the physical side of a relationship or anything just ask him if his girlfriend knows that he talks to other girls about this kind of thing. That will bring out where he is really holding. And remember, if you do end up getting with him while he is with his girlfriend, chances are the next girl will have the same luck.

 

I would ask yourself if his "flirting" with you happened with another girl while you were with him, would it be ok? IMO, I would never get with someone who is willing to go behind their current spouses back.

 

Well his been with his girlfriend from the beginning of last year and what he does and says to me i have never seen him ask different girls the questions that he asks me. I really dont know what to think, but still whenever his with his girlfriend and sees me he'll come up to me and have a conversation, kiss me on the cheek, etc.
But from your honest opinions do you think that he likes me more than a friend or just likes me as a friend?
I was thinking of talking to him about it but now im starting to have second thoughts because if i tell him that i like him and he doesnt feel the same way about me, what's he and his girlfriend going to think of me?
Please help.

 

You said that he is going to "your formal". If that means that he is going to be your escort to a formal dance, then yes he likes you as more than a friend.

You will never know his feelings towards you without talking to him. Look at it this way, if you express yourself to him and he (and his girlfriend) think you are being silly/pushy/whatever then at least you will have had practice for talking to the next guy.

 

Thanks for your help.

But when i asked him out to my formal and he said yes i said to him "We'll go just as friends." The only reason i said that was because his got a girlfriend and if i didnt say that he'll probably think/know that i like him more than a friend.

 

I have also just found out that this guy dumped his gf.
Is there anything that i should say/do?
Please help

 

aski him out?
really its very simple, and i know you're feeling confused by hormones and anxiety and all this other fun teenage stuff but seriously its very straigth forward, just ask him out, and he will tell you whether he is interested or not.

 

^ Thanks for your help

 

Are you friends with his gf? If so then I'd totally wait a while or she might end up hating you. If you don't know her, then still proceed with caution. Also, I wouldn't just ask him out, but this is me. I'd talk to him and explain how you feel and ask him how he feels.
I don't know if this has been useful or not, but I hope you make the right desicion, good luck!

 

yup, agree!!! if you are friends with her... DON'T DO IT!!!! it's evil!!!! it hurts like hell!!!!!! and again.. if he can do that to her... he can do that to you too!!!

 

No im not friends with his gf.
And also im not going to tell him how i feel cause i dont think that's a really good idea cause he told me yesterday that him and his gf is back together so i cant really interfere with their relationship.
Anyways, thanks all for your help.