Why?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Vicar_in_a_Tutu, Aug 10, 2004.

  1. Vicar_in_a_Tutu

    Vicar_in_a_Tutu Member

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    Ok so, i'm a virgin at 19....that's not really a big deal, but i've never even fucking kissed a girl, never felt their touch or a hug, let alone been intimate with one. Why have I been left out when all around me seem to be in love? I can't even approach them without turning into a fucking mess. ARGH! Some words of comfort, or even insults. Say what you will.
     
  2. CckBlocking

    CckBlocking Member

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    I know how you feel. Don't worry your time will come.
    I am a complete mess when it comes to boys. I can't talk to them and if they talk to me I get all nervous and tounge tied and don't make sence. I don't know why its just something that happens, even around boys I hate or think are just nasty.

    Sorry, I can't offer you any advice or anything. :(
    -CB
     
  3. beachbum7

    beachbum7 Lookin' for any fun

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    Vicar, join the club. I'm a virgin at 23, and I've never been in a serious relationship. I think I'm a bit clueless around women. But I'm confident I'll find the right woman :)
     
  4. Hippy_Smurf

    Hippy_Smurf Member

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    One of life's great mysteries - why are the decent guys overlooked for the horrible bad ones? Then again, you might be a gun-toting-foul-mouthed-tosser, but somehow I doubt it.


    There are so many shy people, don't feel as if you're on your own! Everyone gets nervous trying to approach someone, but that's half the fun of it. The thrill of the chase and all that. Just enjoy it, don't let ot overwhelm you. :)

    Mneh, I'm no use. I hope it helped a little.
     
  5. Peace Attack

    Peace Attack Make War

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    I'm the same way, thank you teenage awkwardness...
     
  6. Willy_Wonka_27

    Willy_Wonka_27 Surrender to the Flow

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    u only get what u give


    so get out there and girls will give it up
     
  7. loveflower

    loveflower Senior Member

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    what the

    you dont have to have sex
     
  8. thetaintedfae

    thetaintedfae Member

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    I know a few people in your shoes. They're basically feeling pretty much the same way you do. Besides you're 19 you still have alot of time left. No sweating it.
     
  9. drewbee

    drewbee Member

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    I love shy women, just for the simple fact that its how I use to be. I had to have a girlfriend pretty much walk me through everything. Now I become very attracted to the "shy and mysterious" ones. Usually the shy ones are sweetharts to no end as well, and for that I love um. :)
     
  10. Vicar_in_a_Tutu

    Vicar_in_a_Tutu Member

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    I never said that.
     
  11. meishka

    meishka Grease Munky

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    talk to girls like u talk to the guys. if u don't even talk to the guys it's time to start making freinds. also, think like if u screw up it doesn't matter you're never gonna see this person again. and from wat i've heard, girls are looking for a sensitive bastard.
     
  12. SharyBobbins

    SharyBobbins QPR Football Fan

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    I am in your same situation. I have been hugged by guys but haven't kissed one or had sex. So don't feel like you are alone, there are many of us out there.
     
  13. Vicar_in_a_Tutu

    Vicar_in_a_Tutu Member

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    Thanks for your words guys, it's appreciated :)
     
  14. moon_flower

    moon_flower Banned

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    You just have to take it like you own it. Or, there are always street walkers.
     

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