Preventing Feelings ... ?

Not to mention they're offered
encouragement/ advice on in these Forums.

Saves'em research time, eh? *c*


Ever wonder why it's said 'Life's a Bitch'?

 

Whatever, cmon over sweety.
We can have some casual sex if thats what you want!
Trust me we can do it long and dirty and you will NOT have any feelings for me when we are done. Except maybe a sore ass.

 

Yeah,but you'd only be bombarded by those girls that are insecure & let themselves be taken advantage of.

It seems like Suncatch knows what she wants & there's nothing with a woman who knows what she wants. She just doesn't know how to go about getting it which is why she's on here asking. No big deal.

 

Thanks, whereami. I certainly wasn't trying to get anybody up in arms ... I just wanted some advice because, let's face it, strangers on the internet give the best advice (as long as you take it with a grain, or even a whole shaker) of salt ...

And I won't judge you guys for wanting to have casual sex. If I call you shallow for it, then what does it make me ... ?

The only posts that offend me are advice on how to hurt or exploit someone else. And before anyone decides to call me a hypocrite, most of my posts deal with how to hurt or exploit myself ... not other people.

But this current situation is a win-win -- as long as I can keep myself in check. Which I think I can.

 

So from this point,it's up to you!

 

hah you're horrible d:

 

Sweet. Thanks for your help, folks.

 

why don't you get a real job and your feelings emotions won't get all out of wack.

i won't go where i was going to go because i will go to your lvl, as for asking for $$ thats just low. Theres other ways around the bush. FYI; it's not right for men to do it; as for girls but revenge is not the way to go. i'm not for bed buddies. when it boils down to it you won't know who your babies father is.

 

lol what? I don't think anyone who posted in this thread charges for sex lol. But your naive if you think most relationships don't involve some aspect of prostitution, whether you're having sex to calm a situation down or let's just be real who hasn't used sex to get what they want?

 

hopefully not too many... I've lost enough faith in people already

 

Um ... what? Huh? I'm really really really curious about how someone could read my post as a prostitute (like, an actual professional) trying not to get involved with a client.

I am talking about a friend of mine who I have no particular emotion for, and do not WANT to have emotion for. I was only worried because we have a mutual attraction and that sometimes leads to affection on my part ... and nobody in this situation wants that!!!

But since posting my original message, I have realized that I'm okay -- no worries about developing actual feelings. And along the way I made a prostitute joke. Sorry for the miscommunication!

 

hah that's sweet I didn't know men had the ability to still be naive at your age. I like it

 

An informative interpretation of fulmah's quote -
an interpretation not shared by all
using any stretch of the Imagination.

Marvelous, simply marvelous. *shakes head*

 

After reading this I remembered an old joke w/the punch line

'We've established what you are, now we're haggling about price.'

 

What oxcytoxin is a hormone generated during sex that forms bonds with lovers. This is has a greater chance of happening if you have sex with the person over a period of time. Why not have feeling for him, but not be exclusive. Have sort of a polyamorous relationship so you are not commited. It may be possible to have feelings for a person, have sex with them, and not be exclusive. Just a thought.

Anyway, I find it to be a big turn on that you like his large endowment. In fact, that it is so large that you only want it once a week is "VERY HOT". Enjoy it. It is a novelty. Not all guys can give you that feeling of fullness and being completely penetrated!

 

I may have miss spelled that hormone, which isn't actually a hormone, but a chemical released by the brain during sex.

 

Tried that once with someone else (my poet), and it failed. I was fine with him fucking other girls, but he assumed that I was jealous even when I absolutely was not, and so he dumped me. (At least that's one of the excuses he gave me.) So I have a bad taste in my mouth about relationships in general -- hence my desire to be just a casual fuckfriend.
Plus, I don't think this new guy wants to have any feelings for anyone either.
PLUS I prefer staying relatively cool and objective in my sexual relationships. It seems to work better because I don't take anything personally.

Urk. I know -- after almost a week I am still a little sore, and he didn't even get the whole thing in ... :& The problem is that I am very small, and it's been three months since I've had sex so I'm "out of shape" .
That and condoms literally cut off his circulation ... yikes! I have seen someone put a condom on over their entire ARM, so I did not think this was possible ... but it is. So the risk of pregnancy is a huge turnoff too.

I hope so, since I never want to be exclusive with anyone!
But ever since my poet gave me the ultimatum between having feelings and having sex (one or the other but not both) ... I wonder.

 

If you keep calling him a bed Warmer trust me - it will never be more then sex.

 

No problem, actually ... I think he's pretty much dumped me because I cannot kiss.

Okay, we hooked up last Tuesday -- we were both drunk and it ended up hurting me really bad. But afterwards we talked like there was no problem and he drove me home, saying we'd call each other when we got bored. Well, I got bored again over the weekend and I think letting him know was a mistake.

We saw each other again today and I don't think we will again.

Why do I keep fucking things up?! I don't want a relationship right now, I just want somebody to give me on-and-off casual company for a little while, but guys don't believe that about me.