I was dating a girl for around 6 months, and I know thats not a very long time but over this time period we became very close. about two weeks ago when i was putting up some pictures of us on her myspace i saw a message from a guy saying that they were going to hang out on a day that her and I were supposed to hang out on. So naturally i got curious and looked at her sent messages and she had sent this guy a message saying that she wanted to hook up with him. After reading this i called her up and told her it was over. Since this all she has been saying is how sorry she is and how she now realizes that I am what she wants. She says that if we really love each other then we would atleast try to work things out. I really miss her and as much as I want things to be the same as they were I know that this would always be in the back of my head and if she broke my heart again I'd never forgive myself. My question to you guys and gals is is do you think that she made a mistake that she is truly sorry for or is she just manipulating me? What I don't understand is if she truly loves me as much as she says she does how could she have done that.
Well, it is a hard one, I mean, second chances and all that, but on the other hand, you're right, she might do it again. If you still have feelings for her, then sit her down and tell her that you were upset by it and want to give it another go (if you want) but are worried it will happen again. Explain that it could take some time to build up trust and if she's willing to accept then, it's up to you, you know her better than us. But be careful! And be happy!
The above advice is good advice. Also, I believe in second chances...it could really be a mistake...if you really care about her, she's worth possibly getting hurt again...and if she DOES make another mistake like this...well, then there's your answer...
man, dont fall for any shit a chick tells you. once they send a message like that, even if they want to be taken back, you have to say "no", coz things will only get worse. and she will brainwash you into thinking everything is acceptable. just tell her to piss off.
DUMP HER! I had someone living with me for 6 months who swore up and down she loved me and wanted to even get married. Went thru the same thing you did and then after I booted her out of my house found out she had two other screen names on here and was still in touch with her ex boyfriend who she did the same shit to which landed her here in my house. Then I found out she was also on myspace and pretty much every dating site on the Internet chatting up new victims to go live off. The up side was I put my own MYSAPCE page up and in 6 Months ended up with over 800 friends. I also met the love of my life and am happy I booted the scam artist out of my life to make room for someone way better then she could ever had dreamed of being. Respect and trust are two things that once they are lost are very hard to get back. Dump her ass and go find someone who is more deserving of your love and energy.
